SimplyIzzy2010 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 today, after four months of NC and after I started to feel independent and happy, he texted me from a number I have never seen before. his text says "just wanted to let you know that i'm leaving for college. have a nice life goodbye pigger" (pigger, or piggy) is his special nickname for me. what does this mean? please help me interpret. oh and for the record i didn't really feel anything when i got it. I just heard his voice in my head call me "pathetic" over and over like he used to. i'm scared it might hit me tomorrow or something. aghh i chose not to break NC. I just need help understanding what this could mean. pleace help!!
Dmoney28 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 i think you did feel something when you got the txt, because if you didnt feel anything you would not have posted here . But i just think he's just checking in on you, wanteing a reply or response.
Beeotch Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 today, after four months of NC and after I started to feel independent and happy, he texted me from a number I have never seen before. his text says "just wanted to let you know that i'm leaving for college. have a nice life goodbye pigger" (pigger, or piggy) is his special nickname for me. what does this mean? please help me interpret. oh and for the record i didn't really feel anything when i got it. I just heard his voice in my head call me "pathetic" over and over like he used to. i'm scared it might hit me tomorrow or something. aghh i chose not to break NC. I just need help understanding what this could mean. pleace help!! Don't even worry about it... When you receive ambiguous messages that aren't saying much and you can't tell what they're saying...just leave it alone. I don't know how you feel about him but from the whole pathetic thing, sounds like you don't feel the greatest understandably...so I would just pretend like I never got it and continue along my merry way.
EricaH329 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Noooooo!!! You were doing so good!!!! UGH... I hate when guys do this!! I'd have to agree and go with just acting as if it was never sent to you. I know it started to cause a lot of emotions to come back, but I wouldn't let them get the best of you. Continue on doing what you were doing before he sent you that text. Definitely don't reply to it. You don't want anything to do with him. I'm so sorry this is going on honey!! Stay strong!!
Author SimplyIzzy2010 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Hi guys! Thank you for all your wise words! I must add that his roommate/ cousin called me about an hour ago. I ignored felt bad and answered. Allhe wantedto say was good bye. We were on the phone for around fifteen minutes when his cousin goes "oh yeah me and my cousin were talking the other day and brought you up and he said oooh yeah! He says he only wishes the best for you." Which to I replied "I wish him the best as well. So I guess that's what it was. He just wanted to wish me the best. Can't say I don't feel terrible at the moment, but ill be okay soon. Thanks to all, especially erica:)
EricaH329 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Hi guys! Thank you for all your wise words! I must add that his roommate/ cousin called me about an hour ago. I ignored felt bad and answered. Allhe wantedto say was good bye. We were on the phone for around fifteen minutes when his cousin goes "oh yeah me and my cousin were talking the other day and brought you up and he said oooh yeah! He says he only wishes the best for you." Which to I replied "I wish him the best as well. So I guess that's what it was. He just wanted to wish me the best. Can't say I don't feel terrible at the moment, but ill be okay soon. Thanks to all, especially erica:) Awww! You are welcome hun! I know it's hard. I really do. But like i've said a million times, you are strong. Just keep looking forward.
silic0ntoad Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I would reply. I would say "Don't tell me. Tell my ghost." Seriously. What right do people have? Is this some kind of country club they think they can just waltz in and out of? I would ignore him.
Author SimplyIzzy2010 Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 lol silicon your reply made me laugh because you're so right! And I did ignore him. It was pretty painful and afterwards I felt bad for ignoring such a nice text? But the I remembered that a) I don't knowthe reason why he's doing this. He has a girlfriend. I think. And B) he treated me so horribly and never felt any kind of pity for me so I won't either! And Erica, thanks babe! You're like my mentor here on LS
EricaH329 Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Awww :) I'm glad I can help you!! Now if only I can figure out what to do with my problems haha
mr heartbroken Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 my view is this is a txt that you can either say s%&t he is thinking about me. Why is he doing that you may be asking yourself. He may be testing the water to see if you are still there if he needs you. The other is he wanted you to know that he is doing really well and that his life is great. Again you could ask yourself why is he doing this? He is missing you maybe not as a Girlfriend but defenatly as a friend. Dont Answer it and give him anything if you open the door then it might bring back some old feelings that you managed to forget or surpress. I am sorry if this makes you think. good luck and hope you get through it.....
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