mark1210 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Hey folks... So this is another post related to the saga of the girl I was seeing, we broke up about a week ago. We decided that we have issues to work out and would seek counseling. She was invited to go to my session and on her way she txt'd me saying "When I see you, I can't wait to give you a huge hug". To which I responded by sending a winking smiling face. Her next txt was "You don't miss me in the slightest do you?". I don't understand where she pulled that one from, if I didn't miss her I wouldn't want her involved in getting our issues resolved. If I didn't miss her, I wouldn't respond to her txt's or calls. Granted, I seldom initiate the calls or txts but I do respond to them and I do miss her. Part of me wonders if she regrets how things have ended up, she must care or she wouldn't be going to counseling with me correct? And speaking of counseling, her and I have serious communication issues. I think it stems from both of us being burned in the past. Aside from communication (which is a large item) we get along fantastically well. The counselor even asked her, why are you here if you two are no longer together? To which she said, "I think he is a great guy, if we can overcome this we can over come anything and I want him and I to work out"
Thaddeus Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 She was invited to go to my session and on her way she txt'd me saying "When I see you, I can't wait to give you a huge hug". To which I responded by sending a winking smiling face. Her next txt was "You don't miss me in the slightest do you?".See Borderline Personality Disorder.
Javelin Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 her and I have serious communication issues. I think she wants you to express the way you feel about her in words, instead of sending those feelings in the form of a smiley face.
leap83 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Might be that she is just insecure. You said you were both burned in the past so I'm guessing her confidence level is low.
loveslife Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 See Borderline Personality Disorder. I agree. That girl is messed up.
JustLooking123 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 This is a girl you're just dating, i.e. no kids or marriage, right? RUN! What are you thinking? You owe her nothing. There are plenty of sane women out there. Spend some time figuring out why you allow yourself to get sucked into her drama.
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