jgaz3124 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Well yet another example of why NC is the only true path to healing...Last night my ex was online and i haven't seen him online since the breakup. I im'ed him and we started talking then I got all emotional on him and the convo ended badly like I knew it would. But on the good side of all that I now realize that there is no hope for us getting back together and I am free to move on and heal. I deleted him from every internet social site as well as AIM. So now I don't have to see when he is on and I won't be able to torture myself by looking at his profile anymore. Yes last night hurt like hell, but sometimes the hurt and truth can set you free if you are willing to let go of the hope. I have a date on sunday, just one more step on my moving on process. : )
GrayClouds Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Enjoy the date but don't fool yourself into thinking you over the ex. Remeber the rebound person is a person too.
Author jgaz3124 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Yes I am aware of that but however it is a step of moving on. By the way a date is just a date not a relationship, I have no intentions of jumping into anything to fast.
Turambar Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Sometimes I see my ex on msn too, wishing she sends me at least any sort of greeting, but it never happens. Then I, not being able endure it, talk to her and all I get are replies as cold and sharp-pointed as icicles
Author jgaz3124 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 yup know the feeling it sucks ass that is why NC is best
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