sumdude Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 So my most recent FWB thing ended by her. Even though I didn't expect it to last, even though she often drove me nuts and I didn't really think we would make a couple the rejection still stings a bit. Thing is she got under my skin more than i expected or even realized. I miss her more than I expected. She was in control of the relationship from the start, made sure we didn't get too couple like. I let that power imbalance happen I guess. FWBs rarely end as cleanly as we'd expect. Oh well, there goes another one, ...next?
Bobby2010 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Next nothing. Enjoy the hell out of single life.
caramel c Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 FWB's are designed to be temporary...from what I've heard.
Author sumdude Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 FWB's are designed to be temporary...from what I've heard. Yep, but in a lot of cases one person ends up wanting more than the other or feeling more. I don't really have a problem with it ending. I'm just surprised how it affected me. LOL I guess if I was the one who ended it it wouldn't bother me as much?
caramel c Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Yep, but in a lot of cases one person ends up wanting more than the other or feeling more. I don't really have a problem with it ending. I'm just surprised how it affected me. LOL I guess if I was the one who ended it it wouldn't bother me as much? Ya, I guess you're right, if you ended it you would be feeling much different than you are now. Well, maybe you'll have a relationship next time, or soon even. You never know.
GrayClouds Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 "Whatever you project, the world will reflect... right back at you." maybe, your feeling a bit of what your reflecting...
Turambar Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I think I know how u feel. We never care about rejection when it's mutual. But when you love dearly the other person rejection makes you feel as though your soul shrank with pain within you. As you said it was just a FWB perhaps it's not your case, but anyway...
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