happyuk Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Hey In LDR and my bf is going to another country today till monday, it's like not too far from the uk. and is going with family to see family because he has them over there. He's there for like nearly 4 days and I'm worried he'll cheat, I have cried a bit but stopped now, i dont want him to cheat (obviously) . He said he wasnt gonna talk to girls who wasnt his fam anyways. And weve both said we'd take lie test when we are together fully in nex 2/3months so start afresh. He said he won't do anything, he will prove on test. Been together nearly 18 months now and Ilove him so so much, I said well I don't wanna talk to u till u getback home cos dont want it to mess head up. Anyways just advice please?
Teslacoil Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Wait, let me get this straight. You've been with your boyfriend for 18 months - although it's long distance. Have you met in person yet? The long distance is ending in 2-3 months and you'll be able to be closer together? But to get to my question - he's leaving the country for FOUR DAYS and you're so scared he'll cheat that you're crying? Why are you so paranoid? Has he cheated before? Is he going to be hanging out with ex-girlfriends?
vox Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Wow, lady, you need to get a grip. If your bf hasn't given you any reason to doubt him, you basically just need to get a hold of yourself and stop freaking out. He's going to see his family. You sound really insecure and possessive/paranoid. Nothing sexier to a man than that.
Author happyuk Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Wait, let me get this straight. You've been with your boyfriend for 18 months - although it's long distance. Have you met in person yet? The long distance is ending in 2-3 months and you'll be able to be closer together? But to get to my question - he's leaving the country for FOUR DAYS and you're so scared he'll cheat that you're crying? Why are you so paranoid? Has he cheated before? Is he going to be hanging out with ex-girlfriends? Yes we have met every 2/3 weeks we see each other. No he hasn't cheated to my knowledge and no ex gfs no, it just made me worry like mad.
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