Girls/Ladies: How big of a turn-off are my short fingers? (pic)

[crazy_grl]

Yes, your fingers do look slightly small in proportion to your palms, but if you hadn't mentioned it, I probably wouldn't have noticed. But it might just be that your palm is mushed funny in the scan and the flat pics which makes it look bigger, because in the pic of your hand next to your head, your hand looks completely normal.

 

So are you ladies saying it doesn't bother you to have bigger fingers than your guy? Is having way longer and skinnier fingers than your guy the same thing as having bigger hands even if his hands are overall bigger? Cause that's what I feel like the rule is.

 

I've dated guys whose hands are smaller than mine. It's not a big deal. If it is for some girl, you're better of without the superficial ho bag.

 

I'll tell you the same thing I tell my roommate. If you don't focus on what you see as your imperfections, other people won't either. The fact that you think so lowly of yourself because of a tiny "flaw" is more likely to drive people away than the supposed flaw would.

 

I have long fingers and my hands are slightly larger than most women's. Once, some tiny little punk who thought the way to talk to girls was to insult them told me I have man hands. I'm not going to go hiding my hands because some jerk wants to make me feel bad about them.

 

Also, just because I girl comments that your hands are small doesn't mean she dislikes the fact that they are.

 

but I got cosmetic leg lengthening surgery to become 5 foot 11

 

Is this legit? I thought that kind of thing was completely made up.

Edited November 10, 2009 by crazy_grl

[Thornton]

You're being absolutely ridiculous. Who cares if your fingers are short, as long as your c**k is long enough? My fingers are long but they're all twisted as if I had arthritis (which I don't, my fingers are just deformed). I've never had a guy refuse to date me because of it - he's usually too busy gazing into my eyes (or ogling my breasts) to look at my fingers.

 

To put it another way: If this girl can live with her face, you can live with your fingers. You should be ashamed of yourself for getting so worked up over something so trivial.

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[the stranger]

yeah dude its like I feel the same way! my girlfriend has ridiculous long thin fingers which make her hands a couple centimeters bigger than mine which made me feel pathetic. then i talked to her about it and she said she never thought my hands were small and I had a really great grip that no other guy she's dated has ever had. and sometimes I wish my hands were "bigger" than hers (as in longer) but then I realize I have bigger fingers and palms and a manly grip, which is what matters most. and anyway, girls are supposed to have narrower, longer fingers and guys are supposed to have wider thicker fingers and hands, which is us! so its hard to get past, but its really not a big deal at all

[sjml251]

you have normal looking hands - you should not let this stress you out at all. most women want a nice guy with a great personality - as long as you are loving and gentle to women with those hands, you should have nothing but luck with the ladies!