redshadow85 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 hello this is my first post here, looking to get some advice ive recently introduced myself to this chick at work just by asking what her name was and introducing myself and we had a pretty good convo after i did so..but things have been somewhat awkward since that day, we have a hard time making eye contact with each other and make little conversation ever since whenever we run into each other at work...i catch her looking at me many times when we are on the job..it kind of feels like silly highschool BS i went through a few years back..what can i do in this situation to have a comfortable situation with this girl and just get to talk and know her and what-not? she knows i like her and i think the feeling is mutual..only things i worry about is getting to know another co-worker outside of the job.
browolf Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 maybe the first conversation went better because it was unexpected but now you're both(?) worried about the implications and it's manifesting awkwardness. It's down to you to not be awkward in this situation and lead her out of hers or go for broke and ask her out. Honestly if you did date and it didn't end well, it surely can't get worse than this....awkwardness!
Lovelybird Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Hi, awkwardness is normal when you know a new person My advice is to put pressure off yourself, and don't expect all that colorful romantic stuff yet. be steady, like a man (take initiate, leading, protecting), start from friendship with no expectations. this way you don't add pressure to her as well, then you can know each other slowly and if this is right one, you can build up something from here.
Author redshadow85 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 still havent had much luck getting this girl into a personal convo..i really dont know how easily that could happen as we only conversate where we work..usually in a period where we are close to clocking out.and only thinking of one thing..getting the hell outta there LOL
callingyouuu Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 still havent had much luck getting this girl into a personal convo..i really dont know how easily that could happen as we only conversate where we work..usually in a period where we are close to clocking out.and only thinking of one thing..getting the hell outta there LOL Don't worry about the awkwardness of the past, because for all you know, she might be too scared to talk to you, as well. Lots of times, we create our own awkward moments. You like her. You think she likes you. What else are you waiting for?! Next time, ask her out sometime to meet up after work. Then you can clock out and think of...getting the hell outta there with your girl to get some coffee and talk about politics and white picket fences on a nice bench at the park.
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