4givrnt4gtr Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 So im planning to surprise visit my bf this weekend so we can go to this concert together. What do you guys think...good idea? bad idea? any experiences?
hoping2heal Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Wonderful idea so long as you know what he has planned, know he doesn't have important school or work related obligations that need his attention and most importantly know whether or not he is the kind of person who would enjoy a surprise visit or not.
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Yeah well he was the one who kinda gave me the idea. He is supposed to go to a concert this weekend, which he told me about when I visit. I thought about going but i still wasnt sure whether i could or not. A few days ago he was telling me about his busy weekend, about the concert and his brother's visit. (Actually, when i visited him his mom asked me if i could come up to meet the brother this weekend since he is in the army so its a rare opportunity). After he told me about it he jokingly said "so if you are going to surprise visit me let me know so i can put you in my calendar". I had not thought about it seriously until then but then I got real and thought i shouldnt go since i had just visited 2 weeks ago. Still, the concert sounds like so much fun! Plus spending time with him is something im really missing these days. In any case I asked him if he had bought his tickets yet and he said he had and then again jokingly asked me if he had ruined his early birthday surprise. I laughed and said no, that i wish i could go but have no money. Today I thought about it more and really really wished i could go. I asked him when he was going and he told me the days. Again he asked me why and this time i just said no reason. I talked about it with a friend and he told me to just do it and go! have fun! live the moment! Yet im afraid ill interrupt family time or he might be busy with other stuff (he is supposed to move this weekend as well, though i told him i wanted to help him move) So....yeah...I texted him earlier saying "im going to surprise you this weekend" and didnt get a response.... What do you think...good idea?????
Lovin a scrapper Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Personally, I think its incredibly awesome. A few months ago I had a surprise like that planned for Rayette and I couldnt pull it off. Let us know how it goes. I wish I could see the look on his face when he first sees you.
SuburbanOblivion Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Sounds like he'd be open to it..hope it works out!!
Lucky_One Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Personally, I think he's already expecting you, and he will be very disappointed if you don't go. Have fun!
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 haha well he texted me at 4 am in response to my "im going to surprise you this weekend" with an "Awesome!! when are you coming up?!" So much for a surprise visit, but Im super excited and happy to see he is excited about it too. Cant wait to take that plane tonight!!!
Island Girl Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I hope your weekend is going well. He sounded really excited to see you. And the concert must have been a blast.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 haha well he texted me at 4 am in response to my "im going to surprise you this weekend" with an "Awesome!! when are you coming up?!" So much for a surprise visit, but Im super excited and happy to see he is excited about it too. Cant wait to take that plane tonight!!! Awww... well at least he sounded happy in his text. Hope you have fun.
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