Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 A guy at work asked me earlier this week for a date on Friday (tomorrow).. I know he'd like to date me.. he never stop complimenting me.. blablabla..even other people at the office noticed... We were supposed to meet to discuss something then he asked me to go out for dinner at the same time .. then to his group (I forgot the word he used)... anyway.. I asked him what this group was about.. He said that was a meeting 'club' for a 30+ people.. WTF???? Why would he take me to a 'meet market for 30+ people???'... I thought that was really weird.. and told him that I didn't like those 'meeting clubs' and that we'd meet some other time.. My best friend has an hypothetic answer about why he would take me there.. What are your thoughts?
Vet Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 A guy at work asked me earlier this week for a date on Friday (tomorrow).. I know he'd like to date me.. he never stop complimenting me.. blablabla..even other people at the office noticed... We were supposed to meet to discuss something then he asked me to go out for dinner at the same time .. then to his group (I forgot the word he used)... anyway.. I asked him what this group was about.. He said that was a meeting 'club' for a 30+ people.. WTF???? Why would he take me to a 'meet market for 30+ people???'... I thought that was really weird.. and told him that I didn't like those 'meeting clubs' and that we'd meet some other time.. My best friend has an hypothetic answer about why he would take me there.. What are your thoughts? Either AA or a swingers party.
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Either AA or a swingers party. No.no.. just a meeting place for 30+ singles..
Vet Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 No.no.. just a meeting place for 30+ singles.. Is this one of those activity groups that goes skydiving and crap?
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Is this one of those activity groups that goes skydiving and crap? I'm not sure.. I think there are some activities involved.. but this Friday it was only meet and greet at a bar.. I thought it was weird that he asks me to go there with him..
boldjack Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I don't know if I would call it "weird", or not. What are you concerned about, Liz?
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 I don't know if I would call it "weird", or not. What are you concerned about, Liz? I'm not concerned about anything.. I just find it odd that someone would take his date to a meet-and-greet night for singles.. Just odd.. don't you think?
Vet Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I'm not concerned about anything.. I just find it odd that someone would take his date to a meet-and-greet night for singles.. Just odd.. don't you think? Perhaps to make someone he's interested in at the group jealous?
boldjack Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Well, yeah, "odd", is about what I would call it. He probably just has some friends there and wants to show you off. I mean, you DO look a treat, after all.
sexibanez Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 he's keeping his options open x x i think it's weird too tbh, but hey, points for being different!
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Perhaps to make someone he's interested in at the group jealous? Hahaha.. that's my best friend's theory... She was appalled that he had asked me to go there.. Men/women don't usually take their dates to a singles' club.. So she said.. single men who wants to catch women will show off with a good looking woman to attract other women...
butcher's hook Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 So she said.. single men who wants to catch women will show off with a good looking woman to attract other women... Yeah I was thinking that OR it's the kind of singles group where they ask you to bring another single along. A friend of mine used to have those parties where you had to bring a single friend to the party therefore we were all forced to meet new people outside of our group of friends. Still weird that he would ask you to a date and then that. I would have asked him then and there why he would ask you to a singles group? I would have joked and said "do I look like I need a boyfriend?";)
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 Yeah I was thinking that OR it's the kind of singles group where they ask you to bring another single along. A friend of mine used to have those parties where you had to bring a single friend to the party therefore we were all forced to meet new people outside of our group of friends. Still weird that he would ask you to a date and then that. I would have asked him then and there why he would ask you to a singles group? I would have joked and said "do I look like I need a boyfriend?";) good one. to bring another single friend.. yeah.. that is possible also.. I will ask him next time..
alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I mean, you DO look a treat, after all. unless you've met L60 in real life you actually have no idea what she looks like.
boldjack Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I have tried for a rendezvous with her, but she scorns me , every time.
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 unless you've met L60 in real life you actually have no idea what she looks like. I'm in my avie tonite..
CaliGuy Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 A guy at work asked me earlier this week for a date on Friday (tomorrow).. I know he'd like to date me.. he never stop complimenting me.. blablabla..even other people at the office noticed... We were supposed to meet to discuss something then he asked me to go out for dinner at the same time .. then to his group (I forgot the word he used)... anyway.. I asked him what this group was about.. He said that was a meeting 'club' for a 30+ people.. WTF???? Why would he take me to a 'meet market for 30+ people???'... I thought that was really weird.. and told him that I didn't like those 'meeting clubs' and that we'd meet some other time.. My best friend has an hypothetic answer about why he would take me there.. What are your thoughts? I think he's a pansy. If he really was interested in you, he'd take you to a classy place to eat, drink and talk. Just you and him. Tell him I said he's a wuss.
canada67 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 that could be anyone I think you missed her point! While I see why you think that's different, well yeah, it is. Fact of the matter is who knows, and really who cares, just go out. Worst thing that can happen? Crappy date. A crappy date is better than no date! I always tell this to my one buddy in regards to dating: Thinking is bad for you, stop thinking, trust me, it works for him every time!
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