Does this girl still like me?

[dreamergrl]

Are you serious? 'Long' relationships in HS last months, and people change their mind every other period. Your wasting too much time worrying about this, I can promise you that anyone you meet sophmore year of high school (and most likely college as well) isnt the woman youre destined to spend your life with.

 

 

 

What are you looking for here? How many times does everyone have to tell you shes not interested, on top of the fact she already turned you down? Just get this out of your mind, this girl isnt interested.

 

Would you like to join me while I stick my head the in the door way and have someone slam it shut?

[BCCA]

Would you like to join me while I stick my head the in the door way and have someone slam it shut?

 

I think so, he's like the male version of jmmm lol

[Die Hard]

What? Ive never acted this way around her never acted desperate. So no i dont act this way around her. I dont know how she could of found a new crush in the last day of school becausse the day before she stopped flirting but was interested.

 

Hey man, don't sweat the responses you've gotten here in this thread!! You're a sophmore in HS, which means you're 15, maybe 16 years old for god's sake. EVERYONE has acted the way you are and has experienced what you are experiencing in high school. You're not being creepy or stalking....you're just finding your way which is what being 15 and in high school is all about!! I'll tell you what I realized a long time ago about this site: there are some good people here but most have serious issues with realtionships and are more or less broken when it comes to having one. My advice to you is to be yourself, keep finding your own way and most of all leave this site. You are too young for most of them to be any help for you. They have too much emotional relationship baggage and are too bitter about it to be of any real help. Get with your friends and talk to them. They're your own age and can be much more helpful than some of the folks here. Save this site for after you've been involved with more women. Then you too will be a broken person with lot's of baggage. At that point, you'll fit right in here.

 

There really ought to be an 18 or younger forum section here to seperate the broken from the inexperienced.

[letinmotion]

Yes but she has told many other people that she did like me and my friend who asked her is very trustworthy. She said she would go out with me but its the end of the school year and she didnt know when shed see me. When she did like me she played these staring games with me sort of similar to this one. She asked me to dance at the 8th grade dance and in April she told me she thinks about it every day. Seriously how could she of changed her mind in a matter of 4 days?

 

What a girl says and what a girl does are two completely opposite things. That is not exactly to say that women in general are dishonest but unfortunately many women get caught up in trying to not hurt a man's feelings.

[cardinalfan5]

Hey man, don't sweat the responses you've gotten here in this thread!! You're a sophmore in HS, which means you're 15, maybe 16 years old for god's sake. EVERYONE has acted the way you are and has experienced what you are experiencing in high school. You're not being creepy or stalking....you're just finding your way which is what being 15 and in high school is all about!! I'll tell you what I realized a long time ago about this site: there are some good people here but most have serious issues with realtionships and are more or less broken when it comes to having one. My advice to you is to be yourself, keep finding your own way and most of all leave this site. You are too young for most of them to be any help for you. They have too much emotional relationship baggage and are too bitter about it to be of any real help. Get with your friends and talk to them. They're your own age and can be much more helpful than some of the folks here. Save this site for after you've been involved with more women. Then you too will be a broken person with lot's of baggage. At that point, you'll fit right in here.

 

There really ought to be an 18 or younger forum section here to seperate the broken from the inexperienced.

 

Hey thanks for the advice. I went to a football game with her there and now im beginning to think she just didnt wanna date in the summer. Because when I got close to her she gave me a serious gaze for about 10 seconds Then she waved to me. I could see her glancing toward me even with her friends. Thanks for this positive post. Im beginning to think this site is a dump. All my other posts on other sites people are way more positive. And its really only 2 people giving flak. And they are at least 25 if not older. This must be whats going on I see it very hard for someone to change their mind in 4 days. And everyone on the other sites hjust want me to ask her out So ill wait till homecoming in a month. Plus the person who asked her for me is kind of my mentor. She said she really liked this boy but since it was summer she said no to him. So she got the same situation i did. She liked him but turned him down since she didnt know when shed see him. This is exactly what the girl im chasing said to her. She said she would go out with me but didnt know when shed be able to see me. And shes afraid summer flings dont work out. So I guess I can totally understand. After last night ive got confidence she still does like me. So thanks for the advice. These people are messed up....

[dreamergrl]

OP I counted 8 people that all came to the same conclusion - she's not interested and you're over analyzing.

 

You're only looking for the one person who gives you validation and what you want to hear.

 

You've gotten some great advice from everyone who replied. Move on. Don't grow to over analyze. You'll be thankful in the future

[Die Hard]

Hey thanks for the advice. I went to a football game with her there and now im beginning to think she just didnt wanna date in the summer. Because when I got close to her she gave me a serious gaze for about 10 seconds Then she waved to me. I could see her glancing toward me even with her friends. Thanks for this positive post. Im beginning to think this site is a dump. All my other posts on other sites people are way more positive. And its really only 2 people giving flak. And they are at least 25 if not older. This must be whats going on I see it very hard for someone to change their mind in 4 days. And everyone on the other sites hjust want me to ask her out So ill wait till homecoming in a month. Plus the person who asked her for me is kind of my mentor. She said she really liked this boy but since it was summer she said no to him. So she got the same situation i did. She liked him but turned him down since she didnt know when shed see him. This is exactly what the girl im chasing said to her. She said she would go out with me but didnt know when shed be able to see me. And shes afraid summer flings dont work out. So I guess I can totally understand. After last night ive got confidence she still does like me. So thanks for the advice. These people are messed up....

 

Hi cardinalfan

 

Well it's not a dump here it's just an older crowd not really geared towards high school crush/romance issues.

 

I would not put much faith on things working out with this particular girl. She has what I call "cliqued up" and "bitched up". At this age, when a girls friends find out a boy likes one of them, they often get jealous. They all want to be the girl that has a boy interested in them. She may even have some interest in you but if her friends have labeled you "not cool" or "creepy" then it's a tough road from there given the immense peer pressure at that age. She will be too embarrased to tell her friends she likes you and she'll join them in treating you bad. My advice is to approach her when she is not around her friends. Try becoming a friend yourself, or better yet, friends with one of her friends. I once got with a girl by helping one of her friends get her keys out of a locked car in the HS parking lot. After that, she told the chick I was interested in that I was an "okay" guy, giving her peer pressure permission to go out with me. Also keep in mind that she may not even be allowed to date yet. I have relatives with kids your age and his daughter isn't even allowed to date until she's 17, so you could be fighting an uphill battle.

 

At then end of the day, just remember that there are all kinds of dynamics working against you given your age. It's part of growing up. 90 percent of guys have liked a girl in HS only to be treated bad and given mean looks by her friends. It's a completely typical scenario and something most all males experience at least once. This even goes on when you get older. I've had chicks at clubs come up to me and say " so you like xyz, well, she doesn't like you, so get over it." Now, at this age, it's easier. Peer pressure is not quite as strong and all you need do is wait for the friend to not be around and it's a pretty easy hook-up. Then you get to snicker at the friend the next time you see her.

[xpaperxcutx]

High school is different from real life dating. Everyone plays nice because they can't physically ignore one another until at least graduation.

 

Not that everyone was trying to be bitter, but the games and rules are different in a school setting. What most teenagers consider love is mostly lust, and sex and losing virginities are less focused on soulmates and more on experimentation.

 

So whatever this girl you like does, being overanalytical won't get you anywhere. Go with the flow, and physically ask her out if that'll get you your answer. Nobody can the right answers because teenagers are literally the definition of raging hormones.

 

Personally, even now I can't place myself back in 8th and 9th grade, despite it being merely 3-4 years ago.

[cardinalfan5]

Hi cardinalfan

 

Well it's not a dump here it's just an older crowd not really geared towards high school crush/romance issues.

 

I would not put much faith on things working out with this particular girl. She has what I call "cliqued up" and "bitched up". At this age, when a girls friends find out a boy likes one of them, they often get jealous. They all want to be the girl that has a boy interested in them. She may even have some interest in you but if her friends have labeled you "not cool" or "creepy" then it's a tough road from there given the immense peer pressure at that age. She will be too embarrased to tell her friends she likes you and she'll join them in treating you bad. My advice is to approach her when she is not around her friends. Try becoming a friend yourself, or better yet, friends with one of her friends. I once got with a girl by helping one of her friends get her keys out of a locked car in the HS parking lot. After that, she told the chick I was interested in that I was an "okay" guy, giving her peer pressure permission to go out with me. Also keep in mind that she may not even be allowed to date yet. I have relatives with kids your age and his daughter isn't even allowed to date until she's 17, so you could be fighting an uphill battle.

 

At then end of the day, just remember that there are all kinds of dynamics working against you given your age. It's part of growing up. 90 percent of guys have liked a girl in HS only to be treated bad and given mean looks by her friends. It's a completely typical scenario and something most all males experience at least once. This even goes on when you get older. I've had chicks at clubs come up to me and say " so you like xyz, well, she doesn't like you, so get over it." Now, at this age, it's easier. Peer pressure is not quite as strong and all you need do is wait for the friend to not be around and it's a pretty easy hook-up. Then you get to snicker at the friend the next time you see her. [/quote

 

Funny thing her Dad is very strict. My mom knows him becuase we were in some exchange student group with him. Hes pretty serious. And I agrree with the friend being jealous. But her friend does have a BF I dont think shes ever had a BF seriosuly. I think she did for a day in the summer in 2008 but it lasted for like 1 day. Maybe thats where shes getting the summer fling thing from. Shes with friends alot I was going to ask her face to face on the last day of school but one of her friends got in the way. And other people have told me asking in person is a million times better than facebook. So she could of accidentally said some things on the internet true? But yeah really didnt know about this site and now i know people are older and dreamergirl F*** off. You dont know what she acts around me and you dont know what shes done. Your at least 25 years old 10 years older than I am. so seriously GTFO. And when I did find out she liked me it didnt come from one of her close friends. I asked one of her close friends and she said i dont know. Then a boy who asked her came up to me and said she did like me then she told a person she did not even know at all she did! So im getting the hunch she didnt want to date in the summer or she kind of disrespeted i talked to her on FB And she did gaze into me for at least 10 seconds. So im thinking that means something. You agree with me Die Hard NOT DREAMERGIRL GTFO DREAMERGIRL GTFO!!!!

[Vet]

Hi cardinalfan

 

Well it's not a dump here it's just an older crowd not really geared towards high school crush/romance issues.

 

I would not put much faith on things working out with this particular girl. She has what I call "cliqued up" and "bitched up". At this age, when a girls friends find out a boy likes one of them, they often get jealous. They all want to be the girl that has a boy interested in them. She may even have some interest in you but if her friends have labeled you "not cool" or "creepy" then it's a tough road from there given the immense peer pressure at that age. She will be too embarrased to tell her friends she likes you and she'll join them in treating you bad. My advice is to approach her when she is not around her friends. Try becoming a friend yourself, or better yet, friends with one of her friends. I once got with a girl by helping one of her friends get her keys out of a locked car in the HS parking lot. After that, she told the chick I was interested in that I was an "okay" guy, giving her peer pressure permission to go out with me. Also keep in mind that she may not even be allowed to date yet. I have relatives with kids your age and his daughter isn't even allowed to date until she's 17, so you could be fighting an uphill battle.

 

At then end of the day, just remember that there are all kinds of dynamics working against you given your age. It's part of growing up. 90 percent of guys have liked a girl in HS only to be treated bad and given mean looks by her friends. It's a completely typical scenario and something most all males experience at least once. This even goes on when you get older. I've had chicks at clubs come up to me and say " so you like xyz, well, she doesn't like you, so get over it." Now, at this age, it's easier. Peer pressure is not quite as strong and all you need do is wait for the friend to not be around and it's a pretty easy hook-up. Then you get to snicker at the friend the next time you see her. [/quote

 

Funny thing her Dad is very strict. My mom knows him becuase we were in some exchange student group with him. Hes pretty serious. And I agrree with the friend being jealous. But her friend does have a BF I dont think shes ever had a BF seriosuly. I think she did for a day in the summer in 2008 but it lasted for like 1 day. Maybe thats where shes getting the summer fling thing from. Shes with friends alot I was going to ask her face to face on the last day of school but one of her friends got in the way. And other people have told me asking in person is a million times better than facebook. So she could of accidentally said some things on the internet true? But yeah really didnt know about this site and now i know people are older and dreamergirl F*** off. You dont know what she acts around me and you dont know what shes done. Your at least 25 years old 10 years older than I am. so seriously GTFO. And when I did find out she liked me it didnt come from one of her close friends. I asked one of her close friends and she said i dont know. Then a boy who asked her came up to me and said she did like me then she told a person she did not even know at all she did! So im getting the hunch she didnt want to date in the summer or she kind of disrespeted i talked to her on FB And she did gaze into me for at least 10 seconds. So im thinking that means something. You agree with me Die Hard NOT DREAMERGIRL GTFO DREAMERGIRL GTFO!!!!

 

The only way she'll ever know how you truly feel is if you go to her house late at night, throw rocks at her window, and serenade her to her favorite song. Then start sending her flowers, gifts, teddy bears, etc. She'll eventually come around.

[northstar1]

Hi cardinalfan

 

Well it's not a dump here it's just an older crowd not really geared towards high school crush/romance issues.

 

I would not put much faith on things working out with this particular girl. She has what I call "cliqued up" and "bitched up". At this age, when a girls friends find out a boy likes one of them, they often get jealous. They all want to be the girl that has a boy interested in them. She may even have some interest in you but if her friends have labeled you "not cool" or "creepy" then it's a tough road from there given the immense peer pressure at that age. She will be too embarrased to tell her friends she likes you and she'll join them in treating you bad. My advice is to approach her when she is not around her friends. Try becoming a friend yourself, or better yet, friends with one of her friends. I once got with a girl by helping one of her friends get her keys out of a locked car in the HS parking lot. After that, she told the chick I was interested in that I was an "okay" guy, giving her peer pressure permission to go out with me. Also keep in mind that she may not even be allowed to date yet. I have relatives with kids your age and his daughter isn't even allowed to date until she's 17, so you could be fighting an uphill battle.

 

At then end of the day, just remember that there are all kinds of dynamics working against you given your age. It's part of growing up. 90 percent of guys have liked a girl in HS only to be treated bad and given mean looks by her friends. It's a completely typical scenario and something most all males experience at least once. This even goes on when you get older. I've had chicks at clubs come up to me and say " so you like xyz, well, she doesn't like you, so get over it." Now, at this age, it's easier. Peer pressure is not quite as strong and all you need do is wait for the friend to not be around and it's a pretty easy hook-up. Then you get to snicker at the friend the next time you see her. [/quote

 

Funny thing her Dad is very strict. My mom knows him becuase we were in some exchange student group with him. Hes pretty serious. And I agrree with the friend being jealous. But her friend does have a BF I dont think shes ever had a BF seriosuly. I think she did for a day in the summer in 2008 but it lasted for like 1 day. Maybe thats where shes getting the summer fling thing from. Shes with friends alot I was going to ask her face to face on the last day of school but one of her friends got in the way. And other people have told me asking in person is a million times better than facebook. So she could of accidentally said some things on the internet true? But yeah really didnt know about this site and now i know people are older and dreamergirl F*** off. You dont know what she acts around me and you dont know what shes done. Your at least 25 years old 10 years older than I am. so seriously GTFO. And when I did find out she liked me it didnt come from one of her close friends. I asked one of her close friends and she said i dont know. Then a boy who asked her came up to me and said she did like me then she told a person she did not even know at all she did! So im getting the hunch she didnt want to date in the summer or she kind of disrespeted i talked to her on FB And she did gaze into me for at least 10 seconds. So im thinking that means something. You agree with me Die Hard NOT DREAMERGIRL GTFO DREAMERGIRL GTFO!!!!

 

Alright son, then ignore all the advice on here and ask her out. You know best.

 

Do they still teach English in highschool?

[Die Hard]

 

Alright son, then ignore all the advice on here and ask her out. You know best.

 

Do they still teach English in highschool?

 

That's exactly what he should do. If you like a chick don't be a pussy and not take the chance. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Big whoop. He'll learn from the experience and be able to apply what he learned on his next crush. It's part of life and this risk averse attitude some of you have I frankly find weak and typical of this site. Basically you're telling this kid unless your sure she'll yes, then don't ask. That's weak and a sure way to end up spending lots of time at LS.

[Cora]

I apologize, maybe I read the post wrong. I was under the impression that he had already tried and she told him no. I just didn't want the OP to worry over and hold out hope for a girl who isn't interested. If you haven't asked her out yet then I agree you should do so. What do you have to lose? All I'm saying is don't get so hung up on a girl who isn't interested in you.

[cardinalfan5]

Yeah didnt really ask her out at least not face to face. She just told me shes not interested in dating anyone right now. Thats really what she told my friend saying she woudlnt know if shed be able to see me. And it wasnt face to face just Facebook 2 months ago.

[Die Hard]

I apologize, maybe I read the post wrong. I was under the impression that he had already tried and she told him no. I just didn't want the OP to worry over and hold out hope for a girl who isn't interested. If you haven't asked her out yet then I agree you should do so. What do you have to lose? All I'm saying is don't get so hung up on a girl who isn't interested in you.

 

Heck I'd even say that if he still wants to ask her out a second time to go for it. If I'd given up every time a chick said no the first time I asked her out, about a third of the women I'd ever dated wouldn't have happened. At the end of the day, nomatter how it turns out, he'll have learned some things, and that's the most important thing for him right now given his age. Women don't like guys with no balls or guys that give up too easy. Not that being too persistent is always good either but there's a learning curve involved and he can't learn if he doesn't take chances. Rejection is part of life and a part of life best learned early on, imo.

[tkgirl]

Hi cardinalfan

 

Well it's not a dump here it's just an older crowd not really geared towards high school crush/romance issues.

 

I would not put much faith on things working out with this particular girl. She has what I call "cliqued up" and "bitched up". At this age, when a girls friends find out a boy likes one of them, they often get jealous. They all want to be the girl that has a boy interested in them. She may even have some interest in you but if her friends have labeled you "not cool" or "creepy" then it's a tough road from there given the immense peer pressure at that age. She will be too embarrased to tell her friends she likes you and she'll join them in treating you bad. My advice is to approach her when she is not around her friends. Try becoming a friend yourself, or better yet, friends with one of her friends. I once got with a girl by helping one of her friends get her keys out of a locked car in the HS parking lot. After that, she told the chick I was interested in that I was an "okay" guy, giving her peer pressure permission to go out with me. Also keep in mind that she may not even be allowed to date yet. I have relatives with kids your age and his daughter isn't even allowed to date until she's 17, so you could be fighting an uphill battle.

 

At then end of the day, just remember that there are all kinds of dynamics working against you given your age. It's part of growing up. 90 percent of guys have liked a girl in HS only to be treated bad and given mean looks by her friends. It's a completely typical scenario and something most all males experience at least once. This even goes on when you get older. I've had chicks at clubs come up to me and say " so you like xyz, well, she doesn't like you, so get over it." Now, at this age, it's easier. Peer pressure is not quite as strong and all you need do is wait for the friend to not be around and it's a pretty easy hook-up. Then you get to snicker at the friend the next time you see her. [/quote

 

Funny thing her Dad is very strict. My mom knows him becuase we were in some exchange student group with him. Hes pretty serious. And I agrree with the friend being jealous. But her friend does have a BF I dont think shes ever had a BF seriosuly. I think she did for a day in the summer in 2008 but it lasted for like 1 day. Maybe thats where shes getting the summer fling thing from. Shes with friends alot I was going to ask her face to face on the last day of school but one of her friends got in the way. And other people have told me asking in person is a million times better than facebook. So she could of accidentally said some things on the internet true? But yeah really didnt know about this site and now i know people are older and dreamergirl F*** off. You dont know what she acts around me and you dont know what shes done. Your at least 25 years old 10 years older than I am. so seriously GTFO. And when I did find out she liked me it didnt come from one of her close friends. I asked one of her close friends and she said i dont know. Then a boy who asked her came up to me and said she did like me then she told a person she did not even know at all she did! So im getting the hunch she didnt want to date in the summer or she kind of disrespeted i talked to her on FB And she did gaze into me for at least 10 seconds. So im thinking that means something. You agree with me Die Hard NOT DREAMERGIRL GTFO DREAMERGIRL GTFO!!!!

 

 

um... what does GTFO mean? anyho... you need to back off my girl dreamr, she really was trying to help. Just know when you post on a public forum, you're going to get a lot of different POVs and you don't have to agree with any of them, but you don't have to go off on any of us either.

 

anyho... with that said, how about this... I say she just might like you, but instead of asking us, why don't you... oh, I don't know... ASK HER OUT and see?

[cardinalfan5]

OK but despite that Facebook conversation 3 months ago you do think she likes me? I really don't want be embarrassed

[tkgirl]

OK but despite that Facebook conversation 3 months ago you do think she likes me? I really don't want be embarrassed

 

I'm afraid you are going to have to take that chance and find out yourself. Seriously, you can analyze it to death or just do it! ask her out already.. maybe do it as a group thing first if that feels more comfortable, but you gotta do something or it will drive you crazy.. trying to figure it out.

Oh, and BTW.. girls dig confident guys so.. there you go. Good Luck!

[Die Hard]

OK but despite that Facebook conversation 3 months ago you do think she likes me? I really don't want be embarrassed

 

I agree with tkgirl and I'll go further. You cannot go thru life scared of being embarrased. It's going to happen, regardless. The trick is to train yourself to accept embarrassment and rejection as a part of life and accept the fact that it's going to happen but pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again with a different girl. It's not like you're going to marry this chick and have kids even if you do go out with her. Dating can be extremely fun but it wouldn't be that way, imo, if you always knew beforehand if she likes you, how it will turn out, etc. The unknown and the risk of rejection is part of the thrill of meeting new people and putting yourself out there. Don't fear it, embrace it as the way it is and you'll find yourself having a lot more fun in the end. Asking girls out and dating takes practice and is a process of trial and error. Remember that!

[boogieboy]

 

That's exactly what he should do. If you like a chick don't be a pussy and not take the chance. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Big whoop. He'll learn from the experience and be able to apply what he learned on his next crush. It's part of life and this risk averse attitude some of you have I frankly find weak and typical of this site. Basically you're telling this kid unless your sure she'll yes, then don't ask. That's weak and a sure way to end up spending lots of time at LS.

 

We already told him exactly this 3 pages ago. We told him to forget about her, ask her out, move on to new girls, we did all that. He just wanted to be coddled. He has gotten obsessed with this girl, and has already imagined all sorts of things in his mind about her, thats why he has to believe she likes him, otherwise everything he believes is wrong.

 

He already asked her out, she said no, a few times. Then he stares at her but doesnt say anything on multiple occasions. Then he comes here and asks if she likes him. He only wanted us to tell him that she did like him, but he wont do anything about it. He has come back here and asked the same thing multiple times. So it doesnt matter what we tell him, hes not going to listen anyway.

 

He will find out the hard way that hes going to crash and burn with this girl, and he will probably come back and ask what he did wrong. We were trying to save him the trouble of finding out the hard way that girls change their mind like they do underwear, but he doesnt believe that.

 

He's a kid. He's too scared to ask her, he never will. He's worried about getting embarrassed.

[boogieboy]

I agree with tkgirl and I'll go further. You cannot go thru life scared of being embarrased. It's going to happen, regardless. The trick is to train yourself to accept embarrassment and rejection as a part of life and accept the fact that it's going to happen but pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again with a different girl. It's not like you're going to marry this chick and have kids even if you do go out with her. Dating can be extremely fun but it wouldn't be that way, imo, if you always knew beforehand if she likes you, how it will turn out, etc. The unknown and the risk of rejection is part of the thrill of meeting new people and putting yourself out there. Don't fear it, embrace it as the way it is and you'll find yourself having a lot more fun in the end. Asking girls out and dating takes practice and is a process of trial and error. Remember that!

 

Yeah but.... do you think she likes him?

 

Getting rejected is pretty empowering actually...

[tkgirl]

We already told him exactly this 3 pages ago. We told him to forget about her, ask her out, move on to new girls, we did all that. He just wanted to be coddled. He has gotten obsessed with this girl, and has already imagined all sorts of things in his mind about her, thats why he has to believe she likes him, otherwise everything he believes is wrong.

 

He already asked her out, she said no, a few times. Then he stares at her but doesnt say anything on multiple occasions. Then he comes here and asks if she likes him. He only wanted us to tell him that she did like him, but he wont do anything about it. He has come back here and asked the same thing multiple times. So it doesnt matter what we tell him, hes not going to listen anyway.

 

He will find out the hard way that hes going to crash and burn with this girl, and he will probably come back and ask what he did wrong. We were trying to save him the trouble of finding out the hard way that girls change their mind like they do underwear, but he doesnt believe that.

 

He's a kid. He's too scared to ask her, he never will. He's worried about getting embarrassed.

 

 

yeah.. I read the whole thread and I realize the OP is just going to keep asking us if we think she likes him... which will get him no where.. asking us I mean. I just would like to see him get up the guts to actually find out for himself...

[tkgirl]

Yeah but.... do you think she likes him?

 

Getting rejected is pretty empowering actually...

 

 

hmmm... interesting... rejection can be empowering? I never found that but I always tried to do the rejecting first so.... rejecting is empowering though.. for sure!

[Die Hard]

Yeah but.... do you think she likes him?

 

Getting rejected is pretty empowering actually...

 

Honestly, I can't tell from what he's written. It's probable she doesn't, but it's also possible that HS relationship politics is interfering. I'm ashamed to admit it now, but I once had a girl of a different ethnicity show interest in me in HS and my friends made fun of me. As if there were something wrong with me because this certain type of chick liked me. Looking back, I know they were just jealous. I wasn't particularly interested in her but was more than willing to go out with her, were it not for my friends and peer pressure.

 

I agree being rejected can be empowering, in the sense that when a girl says yes, it's made all the sweeter by past rejections. For every 4 or 5 times I get rejected, there's comes along a girl who thinks the sun rises and sets in my ass.

[Soul Bear]

 

Getting rejected is pretty empowering actually...

 

So can be rejecting the other person for your own self respect or personal standards