Pregnant. . .

[texaslibby]

I think I am going back and forth betweeen total freaking out mode and somehow transitioning into denial. I have been dating a guy who is newly divorced. I feel like I am about to ruin his little world. I don't even know how this is POSSIBLE! I had to go through nearly a year of infertility from procedures to lots of fertility drugs to even conceive my daughter. I'm having the hardest time wrapping my brain around this. And basically the first time we have sex I get pregnant. How is that even POSSIBLE!

 

I totally care about him, he is wonderful and I am just about to drop a bomb on him that is going to rock his already crazy world. I feel so guilty although I never even imagined this was the slightest possiblity. I am more concerned about how this will affect him than anything. I feel horrible and I have no idea how to tell him. He is such a kind hearted person and I am so afraid he is going to be so mad. The idea of sitting him down and having to actually say the words is making me nauseous just thinking about it.

[Enema]

Chris Rock: "There are only two things a guy can say when you tell him you're pregnant"

 

1) "That's fantastic!"

2) "So.... whatcha gonna do?"

[sb129]

His reaction might be more positive than you give him credit for.

 

After all, he is divorced- its not like he is still married and living with his W.

[xpaperxcutx]

" It takes two to tango" and unless he hadn't been using a rubber, I don't see why you would be upset about tellinh him the news.

 

The worst that can happen is that he refuses to acknowledge the fact he made you conceive.

[Enema]

Did you at any point lead him to believe you were infertile and contraception wasn't necessary?

[dissuasion]

Erm, pregnancy isn't entirely your fault, you just happen to be the gender that holds the baby. If you told him you were infertile than yes, that's a problem, but if not, you shouldn't have to worry about upsetting him because he had a part in it himself >.>