BigBubbs Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Have any of you after a few weeks after the relationship ends started to look at things and realize that you weren't a good match with the person you were with? I have come to this conclusion myself but I still feel the pain of it. Don't know if it is just the loss of the person in my life, increased alone time, shot to my pride that I was dumped, unknown reason for breakup etc etc. Has anyone else here experienced this? It's a strange feeling to know you weren't right together but still feel pain every day.
AlBundy4TD Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 I started dating this girl about 2 months after moving to my new place, a good 12 hours from my previous places. I'm pretty sure I fell for her because she was the first person I really connected with here, despite my gut feelings it wasn't right. She was fun to be with, but never really played the "girlfriend" role very well. Eventually she realized this and saw it as a sign that things wouldn't work out. I knew that in the long run things weren't going to be right, and I ignored many red flags in the beginning. Eventually my heart took over and the red flags didn't matter any longer. Despite the fact that it probably is for the best that things ended, I still feel like crap, now 3.5 weeks later. It's like my confidence left with her, and now it's harder do keep getting used to my new place. I need to listen to those gut feelings and pay attention to those red flags next time.
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