rocketsam Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 5 months ago I split up with my partner of several years. He was moving his career to be closer to me. At the same time, I had an all consuming crush on another guy. I finished things with my long term partner because I wasn't sure if I still loved him therefore didn't want him to move his career for me. I started a relationship with the crush. 5 months on, my ex has given me all the space I asked for and couldn't have behaved more thoughtfully or respectfully. He went ahead with the move to be near me. I miss my ex and think about him a lot, yet I enjoy spending time with the new guy and we get along really well. How do I get out of this mess?
001bh Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 looks like you're not sure of what you really want. You need to figure that out for yourself. If your ex is fine with not being with you then I don't understand what "mess" you are in?
Author rocketsam Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 That's a valid point. My ex wants me back, hence the confusion.
fawn Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 You need to figure out what you want in your partner. Who do you love? If you keep thinking about your ex you are not over him and there could be a future there. Crushes dont mean much!
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