Mimsicles Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Hi If you read my earlier posts you will see that i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years! He recently didnt know what he wanted and we had a break, but after 2 weeks he came running back saying he missed me and i gave him a second chance. Since Monday he has not text me back, not even a phonecall to see how i am. My grandmother is seriously ill in hospital so i thought he'd have asked how she was. Anyway today I was rushed into hospital after collapsing. I wanted him with me at the hospital so i rang and got no answer ( he was at work) so i then text him and i still haven't heard from him. Its been 8 hours! I can only think that he doesnt give a damn about me! Why else would he not reply? The time of my life i have needed him the most and he isn't there for me. What should i do?? Please help i am so angry and upset!
MSUE Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 although I find this more than just rude...maybe there are other explanations other than him being a jerk...maybe he's got no signal or he left his phone at home...or lost it....maybe he's been in meetings...there could be a million reasons besides being a jerk...so take care of yourself and health first and try not to flip and when he does get back to you...ask him in a kind manner...
Author Mimsicles Posted August 27, 2009 Author Posted August 27, 2009 His excuse will probably be the "i've been busy" excuse! I love the lad but why the hell should i put up with this! I would travel around the world to be with him if i had too but he cant even send me a get well text!!
username8 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Hi If you read my earlier posts you will see that i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years! He recently didnt know what he wanted and we had a break, but after 2 weeks he came running back saying he missed me and i gave him a second chance. Since Monday he has not text me back, not even a phonecall to see how i am. My grandmother is seriously ill in hospital so i thought he'd have asked how she was. Anyway today I was rushed into hospital after collapsing. I wanted him with me at the hospital so i rang and got no answer ( he was at work) so i then text him and i still haven't heard from him. Its been 8 hours! I can only think that he doesnt give a damn about me! Why else would he not reply? The time of my life i have needed him the most and he isn't there for me. What should i do?? Please help i am so angry and upset! I know this is hard, but try not to jump straight to the conclusion that he doesn't care. If i was in ur position I would probably be mad as well. However, i noticed once I let my mind go to that spot its hard to get out of thinking bad things. I bet he will eventually respond to you. So just wait to see what he has to say before you turn the mad switch on. And trust me I know this is easier said than done. Just try to do something to take your mind off of him. I hope u feel better and make a quick recovery.
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