Mending1985 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Haven't posted in ages so thought I'd share some news! My ex of 2.5 years and I got back together! I finally let go enough to just be his friend, and in doing that I started to change, started being more fun and less needy and he wanted to be with me again! It's been about 2 months now and we are having our ups and downs as every couple does, but I feel very positive about things. I don't need him anymore, he is the icing on my cake that is already a wonderful life. Hopefully this is a message of hope to some of you out there - sometimes they do come back when you leave them alone!!!
borbiusle Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Damn 2 years, I don't think I could wait around for anyone that long but to each his/her own.
Author Mending1985 Posted August 27, 2009 Author Posted August 27, 2009 Well I wasnt just sitting at home twiddling my thumbs for 2 years lol I dated during that time, but it just never worked out because I still had feelings for my ex and wasnt ready to commit to anyone thats all. Its not really "waiting around" lol
dead-dyke Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Congrats mending - It`s funny (or not) that they seem to make their way back only after you truly let go, huh? Here's to hoping it works for you! : P
eclipseIDE Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Well I wasnt just sitting at home twiddling my thumbs for 2 years lol I dated during that time, but it just never worked out because I still had feelings for my ex and wasnt ready to commit to anyone thats all. Its not really "waiting around" lol Thats great! We live in a throw away society these days and 2 years really gives you time to think through the relationship and make an informed opinion. You lived your life and you didnt click with anyone. Youre very lucky and wish you the best
smookie Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Haven't posted in ages so thought I'd share some news! My ex of 2.5 years and I got back together! I finally let go enough to just be his friend, and in doing that I started to change, started being more fun and less needy and he wanted to be with me again! It's been about 2 months now and we are having our ups and downs as every couple does, but I feel very positive about things. I don't need him anymore, he is the icing on my cake that is already a wonderful life. Hopefully this is a message of hope to some of you out there - sometimes they do come back when you leave them alone!!! I really do not see the 2 years in the post? I am re reading it and still nothing, I see that they dated 2.5 years thats it
dreamergrl Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 A guy isn't just icing on the cake to me. He's not my whole life, but he's not just a topper either. I kind of think perhaps... you're convincing yourself things are alright. I think even when getting back together, the first few months should STILL be a honey moon phase, especially since it's been 2 years or whatever. But you're having your ups and downs already. Tread carefully.
SweetyBear Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 I'm not sure from your post... Were you together for 2.5 years or broken up for 2.5 years? If that's how long you were together, how long were you apart? Thanks! Best wishes to you both, though. I hope it works out for you.
Girlygirl1977 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 I'm guessing the person who said 2 years was looking at her historical posts? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t161942/ in this august 2008 post she said that they were broken up for 2 yrs. So that is now 3 years but since they are dating a few months, it was 2.5yrs after the breakup that made them get back together?
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