hitman111 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 I met a woman at work a while ago and we started to develop deep feelings for each other. The problem was she had a child and lived with the father who she said she loved but was not in love with. We wanted to be together but we didn't want to cheat so she ended it with him before we got together. Things were going great for a while and we spent every moment we could together, she would often say i was the best guy she ever went out with and ticked all her boxes, we both felt we were each others love of their lives. she decided she wanted her ex to leave but she owed him money for his part of the mortgage which she didn't have, he refused to leave till he got it. As time went on this put a lot of stain on our relationship and the longer he was there she started to feel bad that her child may not have her dad around and i was putting a lot of pressure on her. She was torn between us on one hand i was the love of her life, on the other she had a child with him. After around 8 months i couldn't take much more and told her to go back to her ex, she got really angry, got drunk 1 night and did. A week later she then told me she had made a mistake and wanted me back, being apart made us both physically sick. problem was she didn't want to hurt him again. she would say she was going to end it but never did, i got angry and said some nasty things to her and when i tried apologising she changed her number and e-mail, i don't know if she done this because she loves me too much and can't be with me so it's easier being apart or hates me now. I think about her everyday and night, i'm a boxer and in honesty i wasn't ready for a relationship when i met her especially a child. we used to say i'd come back for her when i was ready as i travel for months at a time and need to focus on boxing. She's become my heart in the ring now and every fight i feel like i'm fighting for her back, it's been 9 months since i saw her and i've not touched another woman and plan not to till i'm ready for her in a few years. If i don't go back for her i'll regret it my whole life, the wait to find out is just very painful though. Do you guys think I've got a chance or is it just a fairytale! Any opinions or advise would be great, thanks
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