jgaz3124 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Ok I was doing so good with the positive thinking and all about moving on, and now I am longing for him and I miss him tonight but I have not contacted him. I have a date set up for sunday with a guy who seems really nice but even still I am now missing my ex and want to contact him, but I won't. So I am writing here in the hopes to get these feelings out of my head as I really do want to move on. I am just having a bad day for feelings I guess. GRRRRR.
Darren09 Posted August 27, 2009 Posted August 27, 2009 Wow you did great coming on this forum and posting your feelings rather than speakin to your ex. Thats the first step out of the way. well done. It very hard to focus your energy on other things or other people when your going thru this i understand completley! But like you i am resisting the urge to pick up the phone and ring her...... so easy to do the phone is in my hand now? but then again why the hell shud i bother.. They dont wanna hear from us. Seriously dont avoid these feelings just let them pass thru YOU WILL feel right again and you will be happy again. Just think how strong you will be at the end of all this. your doing great not contacting him btw... just get thru 2day thats most important. be strong and hang in there xxx
Author jgaz3124 Posted August 27, 2009 Author Posted August 27, 2009 Thanks for the positive words, it is nice to know I am not the only one going thru this. To keep myself distracted tonight I am watching a movie and I know that each day is different and I will wake up in the morning and feel something new. But I do think that it is important to feel the uncomfortable feelings sometimes in order to let them go, I keep telling myself what is important is not acting on these uncomfortable feelings.
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