xra Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 I've been dating my boyfriend for close to two years now. He's my first boyfriend and my first true love. When we started dating, he said "I love you" first. Yesterday, we broke up. I saw it coming - he stopped calling, stopped caring as much. For the past week, he has ignored me and not called, even though he knew I'm going through family problems (my grandma is dying...) Then, I finally met him face to face yesterday and we talked. He said he is sorry but he stopped loving me a while ago. He said he got sick of calling me, of having to talk to me, and he's been pretending that he still loves me. Funny thing - just a day before he stopped calling, we talked on the phone and he said that he loves me and misses me... He said he doesn't know what went wrong, and that he just changed. I don't know what to do. He will be moving out (we share a place with a couple of friends), but he's still here for now. Last night, I had a dream that everything was a dream, and that I woke up and he loved me again. And then I really woke up. I just want to go to him, hug him, and have him tell me that it's all a joke. I've never loved anyone before him, and I don't know how to deal with this pain...
Vet Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 I've been dating my boyfriend for close to two years now. He's my first boyfriend and my first true love. When we started dating, he said "I love you" first. Yesterday, we broke up. I saw it coming - he stopped calling, stopped caring as much. For the past week, he has ignored me and not called, even though he knew I'm going through family problems (my grandma is dying...) Then, I finally met him face to face yesterday and we talked. He said he is sorry but he stopped loving me a while ago. He said he got sick of calling me, of having to talk to me, and he's been pretending that he still loves me. Funny thing - just a day before he stopped calling, we talked on the phone and he said that he loves me and misses me... He said he doesn't know what went wrong, and that he just changed. I don't know what to do. He will be moving out (we share a place with a couple of friends), but he's still here for now. Last night, I had a dream that everything was a dream, and that I woke up and he loved me again. And then I really woke up. I just want to go to him, hug him, and have him tell me that it's all a joke. I've never loved anyone before him, and I don't know how to deal with this pain... How old are you? You can't make him love you.
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