Lish Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 i dont know but maybe i would get nuts reading all this....why dont you people concentrate on the matter?????????/ and by the way i think i dont need any dictionary....jst because i write small text messages thats all for this critizcizm is takin place...please dont make it a wide spread issue......it's fine.....i just needed your suggestions but the things got in a reversed manner i dont know what the heck is all this >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> See. I knew you could type properly, all I was implying is that not all people like txt spk....anyway, we've all moved on now.... read up, I gave you advice
Author Ash_fiasco Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 See. I knew you could type properly, all I was implying is that not all people like txt spk....anyway, we've all moved on now.... read up, I gave you advice well i all i can say u and all of the people a very warm thanx....yeah i know what they meant....they thought that as an indian i cannot speak english...i guess this is not a positive sign for me either if i ever went to an european country...they would just speak up whatever they like and i would just simply dump it in my head.....well i just have a very simple and systematic approach towards things....all what i do after the first and the last girl that i met is just to concentrate on things ahead...i just try to clear up the mess by listening music..well i am a music addict and secondly a good stage performer...and then a mechanical engineer.....that's why i dont worry jst because when it happened for the first time i thought that everythings almost over...i never had this kind of life what she gave me....i became lonely i mean to say a sense of loneliness that was all just occupying my mind....and i know it would continue with me...but i try to avoid the things what goes on my mind.....just to have an inner satisfaction that nothings over i just came out of my house to become a good engineer and all alone...nobody came with me and that was just me and after the years i spend here i just realize what the man i am..not just a professional but what matters in life is both good and bad experiences they are equally justified....i dont want to regret for whatever i had because that's my personal experience i never used anybody for my own pride and thats the best thing i can stand for infront of anyone........i hate people with showoffs just because it's difficult to be completely natural and wonderful in this world...people dont realize what they are and simply live their lives as such......well you know what allthough i am an average looking guy i never ever though that i can have a girlfriend it was just like most of the guys from my department thought that we will and would stay single...because you cannot neglect the fact today the world is much more clever and cunning...i mean to say professional....rarely you would find people whom you can say after years as you live by them...that they are marvellous and wonderful just not by nature but by their thinking and belief and a state of mind that you may never find.....i just live by some expectations that atleast i wont harm anyone in my life....just live and let live......i know people take advantages of many things but even knowingly i avoid it saying that ok maybe it would give him that level of satisfaction and happiness....i think it's enough i wrote it far too long for you...but nevermind i appreciate all your statements and i love you all people...thanx for the support you tried to give me...maybe we cannot see the expressions and emotions you people have when you write it down but i can visualize it....nyway thanx once again and i have a request that please dont fight among yourself.....just be happy and NJOY>>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<
Author Ash_fiasco Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 well i was going through the messages....and just was thinkin what's all this....ya know what i am a computer freak and that's what for i write small text messages.....english is not a barrier infront of me.....all i can say you all is that never underestimate anyone in your life...i m talkin in general.....because as an indian i know what's the level of creativity and mind the younger people they have here.....our country produces 50 lakh engineers a year and out of which we have 5 lakh in the creamy layers that means engineers with good and many of them with extraordinary capabilities....now about the foreign countries specially US and european countries i would tell that most of the engineers and doctors we produce go and work there just simply because they are not paid as such and they want to earn big and live big........i know india is a developing country with a billion population and thats quite obvious that you cannot give everyone wht he wants....they live in extreme poverty and unhygienic conditions but basically the thing is that they live each and everyday by their expectations...i am not criticizing anyone in this context but i just tell ya that we have the extreme brains in the world with mindblowing capabilities if you think that this point sucks....ok come here in india i would show you whats the real world behind the luxury people live in modern countries......we have large slums,a very massive population,multicultural society....to modern cities and everything you would get here what you can imagine or maybe cannot imagine
MSUE Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 This sounds like you advise him to ignore her rejection? you are misunderstanding me...what I mean is that if this girls is strictly backing off because of family and cultural differences but she truly is in love with him regardless of then yes its doable and no I don't think is a matter of a rejection...now if this chick is using it as an excuse as an easy way out...then forget it..no chance there
Author Ash_fiasco Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 you are misunderstanding me...what I mean is ret think is a matter of a rejection...now if this chick is using it as an excuse as an easy way out...then forget it..no chance there well the second thing that you talked about is what i am sure about....she doesnt loves me she spoke to me on the phone because i dont trust her....she completely changed her words after an year of our relationship so was it mandatory to pull me just to ruin my life though she was pretty much sure that we dont have any future....i m screwed up and she ruined my life...maybe you wont see it but i always believe in something known as a one woman man philosophy....but the problem is that girls arent ready for it they just wait for a new guy to come and fulfill their requirements.....i feel there's a lack of character among such girls and i hate them literally>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Author Ash_fiasco Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 i feel that maybe i was wrong at some point of my relationship.....hopefully she misjudged me and my thinking....i didnt want to hurt her...but the pain i went through is what it reminds to me that i started hating her.......just because i trusted on her she teared it apart and thats the thing for a good and healthier relation once it's gone then it's completely gone....it's the best way to become insane after you become a lonely guy in your own lonely world......that's it.....no girls no pain....i think guys are much better for giving me a company
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