HisInfernalMajesty Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 It's such a simple idea, but actually going through with it is a lot more complicated. When you've hung out with someone a few times, and you think you should make a "move", any tips on how to go about doing it? I probably sound like a 12 year old virgin. I've been in long term relationships, but I have to admit most of those girls made the first move. Either because they were into making the first move, or they were sick of waiting for me to do it. But recently, over the last few months, I've had a couple girls mention that I'm too conservative. I think it's my fear of rejection, but I've never really been rejected before... because I've never really tried I just fear that I'll be laying there with a girl, try to make a move like kiss her or something and she'll pull away, and now the situation is just awkward as hell. Maybe the girls here can help too, what do you like to see a guy do when he makes the first move on you?
Absolutely Curtains Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 Maybe the girls here can help too, what do you like to see a guy do when he makes the first move on you? The answer is in the question....we like to see you make a move...
Author HisInfernalMajesty Posted August 26, 2009 Author Posted August 26, 2009 Yes, and it's easy for you to say that. But what if it's the wrong time, or wrong move?
Absolutely Curtains Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 Yes, and it's easy for you to say that. But what if it's the wrong time, or wrong move? Forget about "what if"! Carpe diem! Invictus! You miss 100% of the shots you don't take! Dude just go for it! Especially if you're laying down with a girl...seriously, how is that not a signal that she wouldn't mind you makin some moves?
utterer of lies Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 It's such a simple idea, but actually going through with it is a lot more complicated. When you've hung out with someone a few times, and you think you should make a "move", any tips on how to go about doing it? I probably sound like a 12 year old virgin. I've been in long term relationships, but I have to admit most of those girls made the first move. Either because they were into making the first move, or they were sick of waiting for me to do it. But recently, over the last few months, I've had a couple girls mention that I'm too conservative. I think it's my fear of rejection, but I've never really been rejected before... because I've never really tried I just fear that I'll be laying there with a girl, try to make a move like kiss her or something and she'll pull away, and now the situation is just awkward as hell. Maybe the girls here can help too, what do you like to see a guy do when he makes the first move on you? Don't be such a p*ssy. Just try it. Better getting rejected than not finding out because you were scared...
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