NopeNah Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 So...it's now been a little over 3 wks since my ex and I have been back together.. Everything seems like old times as far as she goes and acts. My only problem is I can not get over how she ended things with me 5 months ago..Yes she cheated! I do not think I will ever get back to the same mindset I was in before this happened and need to end it myself. So..for everyone in here hoping and wishing their cheating ex's would someday return..Just know that the fear of them doing it again IS, and in my opinion, WILL always be there...Once that trust is broken, I myself, can never go back!
Peanut9330 Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 Yea I know what you mean my ex cheated and he is doing everything to get me back, but because of that mindset I can’t take him back. The trust is gone and no matter what he does or says he will never be able to completely restore my faith and trust in him. So for me its best to move on however I wish u the best of luck and I hope everything works out for you!!
Author NopeNah Posted August 26, 2009 Author Posted August 26, 2009 The weird thing is, I feel kinda bad about breaking it off with her..What the hell? Why should I have a conscious over "hurting" her after what she put me through?
Peanut9330 Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 That's normal I felt that way at one point as well but in time everything gets better, and you start to realize that you did nothing wrong and that you deserve better, until that time keep yourself busy with friends and family have fun stay positive and enjoy life.
EmptyPromises Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 omg! were in the same boat! cept i never actually caught him cheating. just caught him texting some chick. me and my ex have been back together for 3 weeks too..i def see an improvement with our relationship tho- were avoiding dumb little fights and having fun. i still have my doubts and worries but i let him know about my insecurities. hes going away this wekeend and my big worry is him hooking up with someone , since were not technically officially boyfriend and girlfriend. i told him my worry and he made me feel better right away. maybe talk to your SO and let them know your still worried and see what they say?
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