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Last Wens eve I had a date with a great guy, we met online thru a dating website. We shared a great meal and coffee, for 3 hrs.....at the end he asked me out again. He was leaving town on a trip for a week and said we would go out right when he got back....... I am kinda in shock...this is the first time a guy has never ...textd...emailed...called or something after a date? I have not heard a peep from him. We kissed and had a great hug...and time together...at least he said that?? Do you think he is a gonner??? Tks, J

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You'd have to ask him, to be sure. Only he knows.

 

Maybe he died.

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Last Wens eve I had a date with a great guy, we met online thru a dating website. We shared a great meal and coffee, for 3 hrs.....at the end he asked me out again. He was leaving town on a trip for a week and said we would go out right when he got back....... I am kinda in shock...this is the first time a guy has never ...textd...emailed...called or something after a date? I have not heard a peep from him. We kissed and had a great hug...and time together...at least he said that?? Do you think he is a gonner??? Tks, J

 

I've found online dating websites overwhelm you with potential matches, which can make dating too cumbersome.

 

As far as this guy is concerned, who knows? You'd have to talk to him.

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No, I wouldn't write him off yet. He was going on a trip. Yes, he could have contacted you but if he didn't I think that is still ok. He did talk about seeing you when he got back, so just be patient, it is very likely that he will call soon.

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Yeah- if he was going on a trip, he probably just figured he'd contact you when he got back in town to set up something.

 

If you haven't heard from him early to mid next week, I think it would be ok to send a casual text message just to ask how his trip was and say hello. Sort of a reminder that you are interesting.....

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I met a guy with the same situation. He texted me while he was out of town but it did take him a few days. I assumed he was out having a lot of fun. Do not text him!

 

I just waited until he got back and that made him all the more anxious to see me.

 

Just be cool and wait but don't contact him.

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keep trying, is he back from where he was going?

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