euan98456 Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 Hi Sorry if this is the wrong part of the forum to post in. Also... sorry.. this is a long one. I was going out with this girl, and thinks were bad and she treated me like a door mat.. I tried to work things out, she said she wanted to as well... but she cheated on me during all this. After a while it finished with her (I found out about the cheating afterwards) I spent a few months thinking I'd never meet someone again.. then a girl I knew (who was a former friend of my ex) and we hit it off. It kind of felt like it was "meant to be" Things were going really good.. Then we started having some problems.. and we split up. After about a week, she got in contact and we started talking again. She told me she'd been with another guy once during that week. But I tried to look beyond that and try and get back to how we were. Afew months later we split up again due to a big fight. She sent me loads of bitchy txt's, just to try and wind me up. Then a day after my birthday, (December 5th) I got a text off her saying she cheated on me while we together. And it was followed by a load of nasty txt's to do with her cheating. Because of all the txt's I'd got from her before.. I just thought it was a lie and ignored it a bit. Afew weeks later.. stupidly I was talking to her online, and again I was trying to sort things out. I ended up going over her's to see her and talk (I even took flowers) (this was the 15th of December) As I stood at the door, she said "I don't know if I want you or him (the guy she cheated on me with was her ex)" I told her to think about it and I left. Once I got back, it was like I hit a brick wall and realised I must be mad to try and sort things out with her and it really sunk in that the cheating was true. So I sent an email that night saying she should just pick him, and I didn't want a relationship with her. Xmas went past.. I still kept getting emails from her saying she wanted me... she didn't want to be with him.. and said she called things off with him at the end of November. I was feeling a bit alone, and again stupidly I took her back in January. She said she'd never cheat on me again.. and be honest with me. After about a month she started getting moody with me.. having a go at me if I didn't text to straight back or I didn’t want her to stay over etc etc etc I ended it with her.. then I had weeks of "I'm going to kill myself" and other stupid mind games I even called the police when she said about killing herself and she was going to write a letter putting the blame on me. The emails I got were "hows it feel to know my death will be your fault?" After a while it calmed down.... and it turned in to an email every couple of weeks saying she missed me and wanted me back. About 2 weeks ago, she sent me emails, and what she was saying, didn't add up with what she said before. I said about her cheating on me with her ex.. and she said "the day you came over... I decided I wanted you and called things off with him, so I stopped seeing him that day" Which means all during the beginning of December (and my birthday) she was still going to him! So I found out another big lie from her. (I got an email from her a couple of days ago saying she missed me... and was still in love with me) I really want nothing to do with her... and it's really messing up my head each time I get an email from her.. (I had to change my landline and mobile number) I can't block emails from her (I use gmail) It’s also been at a point where I wish I wasn’t alive, so I didn’t have to deal with it. (really stupid I know) After her and my last ex both cheating... I have no faith in women... and I just want to be left alone. How do I stop her and just move on... please????? Thanks euan98456
NopeNah Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 Block her from ALL forms of contact. If you can't block emails, just stop reading them...delete as soon as you get them..chick sounds CRAZY!!
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