Nagini Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I dont KNOW why on earth the guy Im dating calls me when his other actions show me "he just isnt that into me" writ as big as the Hollywood Bld. sign in Neon on fire ! Ive posted another thread on here about him he has given me fresh signals he was missing me over the weekend (i havent seen him in two weeks) But now tonight Im very depressed and ready to give up and go limited contact. He called me and I asked him what he's doing on his birthday He first said nothing. Then he said he might go with his brother to some cuban restaurant. (ironically he named the favorite place to eat at that his NOW ex gf took him all the time. i know he still misses her because she left him for her super rich exbf) I then offered to come see him. He kind of hesitated. I then asked if he wanted me to. He replied maybe he'll hop a plane to FL and go see his best friend. He then stated that Im busy with work. (uh no not on a saturday) So he went from saying he wasnt really doing anything except hanging with his brother to suddenly saying he'll hop a plane 1000 miles away. Wow I must have cooties.
Author Nagini Posted August 25, 2009 Author Posted August 25, 2009 well my two other ex bf's are being nice and telling me he must be gay gay gay to turn down me lavishing him with attention on his birthday.
redhighheels Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I had a guy once who kept calling me after we only had one date - but he never asked me out again. He just called every 4-5 days or so, until I figured out I don't need a phone buddy. I'm guessing he was married or at least had someone else on the side, something was terribly off about him. Anyway, this guy doesn't seem interested..at best you're just another option. What puzzles me is why are you even taken his calls and why on Earth would you offer to spend time with him on his birthday? Seems like you put yourself up for rejection and all he did was add insult to injury. Ditch him, you can do better.
Author Nagini Posted August 26, 2009 Author Posted August 26, 2009 We seemed to have good times on all our dates is why I wanted to keep dating him of course. And I take his calls because in the past anytime a guy has kept picking up the phone to call me he has been really into me He showed jealousy last night. Another ex was flirtin with me on my facebook wall and he made a couple c0ckbl0ck moves. (made fun of my ex's cheap tiny car)
Vet Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 We seemed to have good times on all our dates is why I wanted to keep dating him of course. And I take his calls because in the past anytime a guy has kept picking up the phone to call me he has been really into me He showed jealousy last night. Another ex was flirtin with me on my facebook wall and he made a couple c0ckbl0ck moves. (made fun of my ex's cheap tiny car) Why are you encouraging love-triangles exactly? You sound extremely young and immature.
BCCA Posted August 26, 2009 Posted August 26, 2009 Hearing stories like this just makes guys want to act like douchebags. Seriously, he obviously blew you off, and changed his birthday plans on the spot specifically to exclude you, and here you are - waiting by the phone for his calls. Dont you think you might deserve just a little bit better? Now hes trash talking your ex's car? Wow, that just lame.
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