xxx Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 My bf and I have been together for two years and we are doing long distance now for 3 months - 6 more months to go. I'm very faithful to him and will never cheat - however I am very frustrated sexually and I turned to porn to release some tension. In the process I got obsessed with a porn star, Rocco Siffredi. Other porn would not do any good for me, I'd only get to release tension with him in it. Yesterday I told my boyfriend all about it and surprisingly he was not mad at me, instead he was very sweet and tried his best to help me get over the obsession. Telling me once I am back with him he would take all the sillyness out of my head and I won't even need to turn to porn anymore. Well today he seems to not take my obsession so well like yesterday. Sigh I am so sad ;( I just finished chatting with my boyfriend and everything was fine until I subconciously brought up Rocco again and this time he got really upset with me. I don't understand, yesterday he was very sweet and tried his best to help me get over the obsession and today he just got very upset...telling me how hurt he was that I was having these feelings for another man - even though this other person is a porn star and i'll never ever do anything with him. Why is he all jealous and mad now?
TMichaels Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 Put yourself in his shoes for a moment... How would you feel if he told you that he was obsessed with some female porn star and that instead of enjoying a sexual release with you, he's satisfying his needs by watching her? My guess is that even if you tried to make light of his initial confession, you *would not* appreciate him constantly bringing up how great it is "with another woman" -- whether it was fantasy or not. So, get a handle on your obsession and quit making him feel any worse than he already does about not being able to be with you. Six months is nothing -- or it could be the beginning of "forever." You decide. Best, TMichaels
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