fooled once Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Do you only want an apology to further contact with him? You absolutely didn't get to know HIM -- to know him would be to know he is married.
jj33 Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Well said Fooled. There is NO such thing as an "online love affair". Its called an online fantasy and OMG I think this guy may be really great he sounds like everything I ever wanted in a man I HOPE ITS NOT BS. Its not a "love affair" until you meet in person and develop an actual face to face relationship. Had you ever met him?
Author lovely12 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Well said Fooled. There is NO such thing as an "online love affair". Its called an online fantasy and OMG I think this guy may be really great he sounds like everything I ever wanted in a man I HOPE ITS NOT BS. Its not a "love affair" until you meet in person and develop an actual face to face relationship. Had you ever met him? I don't appreciate your comments.
Author lovely12 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Do you only want an apology to further contact with him? You absolutely didn't get to know HIM -- to know him would be to know he is married. I don't appreciate your comments either.
Author lovely12 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Hey guys, let's not judge me so quickly here. You all don't know everything.
Author lovely12 Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Let's just say there is more to this. But it doesn't matter. I have moved on. I just can't have him ever contact me again. There is too much chemistry.
jj33 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 We can only comment based on the facts that you give us.
cute1 Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Honey, we can't help if you don't help us. You trusted the untrustworthy. It happens and we all learn from it.
cute1 Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 DId you ever meet him or see him a lot? Did he act single? Believe me a lot of them can get Academy Awards for their behavior. I hope you did move on and you ignore him for what he did not only to you but his wife! Just terrible!!!
LakesideDream Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Let's just say there is more to this. But it doesn't matter. I have moved on. I just can't have him ever contact me again. There is too much chemistry. This is just not sensible. It's an "online" affair. She is an "online" mistress. These are not real. This is not a reality based relationship. To much invested in fantasy. How can one be "in love" and a mistress, If you can't even confirm someones existance? Isn't this a case of being the goal being in love?
VictoryisMine Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 It (can) takes years to master the online dating sites. The 'players' can be so convincing. Been on them for years myself and have met ... with caution, in person ... some really cool people.
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