DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I was doing very, very well. Blocked her from everything, well almost everything. Just got this new 3G phone and for some reason it always logs me into google chat and she sends me a message saying "i wish we couldve ended things better, i don't understand why you were so mad....blah, blah, blah. By the way its 1am on a worknight where she is right now, why is she wasting her time talking to me when I told her to leave me alone. WHYYYYYYY????? I was doing so good....
silic0ntoad Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 Don't reply. You're no longer there to bear whatever pain she has with her. Let her deal with it on her own.
CaliGuy Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I was doing very, very well. Blocked her from everything, well almost everything. Just got this new 3G phone and for some reason it always logs me into google chat and she sends me a message saying "i wish we couldve ended things better, i don't understand why you were so mad....blah, blah, blah. By the way its 1am on a worknight where she is right now, why is she wasting her time talking to me when I told her to leave me alone. WHYYYYYYY????? I was doing so good.... You didn't block her from everything. Block her from Google chat and be done with it.
Author DustySaltus Posted August 25, 2009 Author Posted August 25, 2009 You didn't block her from everything. Block her from Google chat and be done with it. I did, she just keeps finding a way to flank me. She also said, "oh I saw new pictures of you the other day and i'm like, huh? (not to her myself). They always seem to come back around when you are doing better.
bluewolf17 Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 DS, That stinks that she won't just let you go. It's so selfish! Just ingnore her, she will get the point. She doesn't deserve to know anythinga about you anymore.
Author DustySaltus Posted August 25, 2009 Author Posted August 25, 2009 I think she is starting to realize that I'm really down with this. At the same time if you've read my previous posts, I don't know what more I could've done to show this woman I loved her. I think she is beginning to realize this now and it's just a matter of time before she comes on stronger than ever (i.e. getting on a plane over here)...can't put anything past this woman.
Thomas X Forever Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 What are you talking about she always finds a way to flank you? If she's blocked, she's blocked. The end. Block her and be done. This makes no sense.
Author DustySaltus Posted August 25, 2009 Author Posted August 25, 2009 What are you talking about she always finds a way to flank you? If she's blocked, she's blocked. The end. Block her and be done. This makes no sense. I mean whatever defenses I put up she found a way around them. But I've just reassessed what I need to do and will do it.
CaliGuy Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I did, she just keeps finding a way to flank me. She also said, "oh I saw new pictures of you the other day and i'm like, huh? (not to her myself). They always seem to come back around when you are doing better. So you have two options: 1) Just ignore/block her when she goes around it. 2) Tell her that you don't want her contacting you anymore. Don't aruge, don't chat, just tell her NO MORE BOTHERING YOU. People can only bother you if you LET them. If they won't respect your boundary then use whatever means necessary to enforce it. Just do NOT get into any discussions with her. If she sends you an IM, BLOCK HER. Don't reply. PERIOD! You have the power, not her.
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