JLT123 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I stated from the start that when my ex ended up meeting this new person, that I had a strong feeling she would see the guy doesn't give her the same kind of attention/love/devotion that I did, and that at some point down the line, we would re-connect. It's obviously a rebound relationship, and impossible for her to not compare. Anyway, starting Saturday afternoon and going all day through Sunday, I was feeling rather good about things, meaning the hurt had subsided quite a bit. Almost simultaneously, I got this notion in my head that things are not as great as they seem to be between her and the new guy, or they're no longer together. I have not contacted her, but my intuition on things is usually dead-on.. it's sometimes very accurate. I had it in my head that I was going to contact her today all weekend. Last night I had a VERY strange dream that I, for whatever reason, think symbolizes something. Anyway, I was sitting with her and her dad eating dinner, and I ask her why she invited me out. I knew she was still with the new guy, which is why I thought it was strange. She states her dad missed me and wanted to have dinner with me. Then she goes to some hotel (oddly at Dolphins stadium) where she's presumedly meeting the new guy. I run around trying to find their room, and I wake up before I do. I don't know, it's all just very strange to me. I could easily chalk it up to false hope, I suppose, but the odd thing is I have kind of a big weekend planned with the new girl I've been talking to, and I have decided to wait on contacting the ex until after that, because I get the feeling that spending some time with this new person might turn a corner for me. Because the ex-gf ended things so badly, and because she's so prideful and stubborn, I have a feeling she wouldn't reach out to me because she didn't want to come across as crawling back. Like I said, just a very strange series of events all happening at once, at least to me. Thoughts?
Beeotch Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 With intuitions...you have to wait and see how it plays out to know if you are right.
Author JLT123 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 That's basically what I am doing. I always said, the way the universe works with me sometimes, that I think I'll have been with someone else by the time she decides to contact me again, and I'll then be faced with a choice.
DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 JLT, you need to approach it like the X is never goingt to come back. This new girl seems very promising and you shouldn't jeopardize something like this for a woman that treated you like she did. I had one other long term relationship for five years. When we broke up after a while I met someone else but never really opened myself up to them. I knew that I didn't want to get back with my ex but at the same time wasn't completely over her. Well, the new girl wanted a relationship after a few months of dating and I wasn't prepared to give that to her. Now, down the line I realize that she might have been the best one out there for me after all the crap that I went through past and present. I'll never have the chance to make things right. Don't make the same mistake I did, give this new girl the attention she deserves.
Author JLT123 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 I agree, and that is what I am doing. We have a nice weekend planned, actually, so I'm looking forward to that. Hopefully it will give me an opportunity to make a serious attempt at getting over the ex.
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