patcha Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I'm in a relationship with a girl I really adore! She always knows the right things to say to me. Gives me my space and is extremely understanding. I've never met a girl like her. I do have have a few dilemmas in regards to not messing this up due to my inexperience. I miss her all the time. I'll sometimes send her random "I miss you" text. I spend about 1-2 days a week with her for 1-8hrs at a time. With school, we'll only be able to spend 1 day/week together, and I really actually have to squeeze in the time. Other than that, we keep in touch via text and phone on our way to work, class, etc.... Also, when we met, I was somewhat surrounded by other girls. She actually told me she never made an effort to be around me, b/c she figured there were too many girls hitting on me anyway. But then I went after her. So I've always been the chaser. In her previously relationships, she also mentioned them chasing her, and she broke up with them. So this makes me a little insecure. I've never chased anyone. Was I interested in her because I had to chase her? I can definitely say "no." I really like her for who she is and not b/c she's a challenge. I've thought about no longer keeping in contact with new girls coming into my life. I feel it's wrong. Is it weird? But at the same time, I'm afraid if she doesn't see other girls coming after me, she'll just lose interest. But perhaps, if she does, maybe she's not the right one for me? It really feels weird to keep in touch with other girls who I know want me. Keeping in touch with girls who I know just want to be friends is fine though. Thanks for baring through this long read everyone! Would appreciate any relationship advice on this one. Oh and this is a girl-girl relationship, if it matters.
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