cypresa Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 i am in absolute pieces. We've been in friendly email contact but it was killing me cause it has been 1 month NC and then 2 months of friendly email contact and he hasn't asked to see me or anything! Of course i was secretly hoping that he wanted to get back together with me and that he was missing me... All my friends told me just to ignore him cause i need to move on. But I couldn't do it! So I've emailed him to tell him i can't have casual email contact cause I still have feelings and miss him. And it's stopping me moving on properly. And he hasn't replied!!!! that was on friday night... So i'm guessing he is agreeing by not replying???!!! and now i have cut him out of my life.... what happens if he was just testing the water?! now there is no way for him to come back in.... Did i do the right thing??!! I love him still. So much. We had an amazing 2 and half year relationship, he just couldn't commit to living together in the end. He hasn't met anyone else since we split. I can't stop thinking about him - and i now have that horrible feeling in the bottom of my stomach. And it's been 3 months!! did I do the right thing?
Author cypresa Posted August 25, 2009 Author Posted August 25, 2009 i just got an email back from him - saying he was very sorry to receive my email but he understood. Then he said he missed me too and if and when i was ready he would love to meet up.... i can't stop crying... i just guess that i didn't know he missed me... i miss him so much it's crazy....
soheartbroken Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 You did the right thing. And now you have the option to re-connect in the future. Just don't contact him until you are over him (romantically speaking of course).
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