Omega3 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I guess I'm somewhere around the 9 week mark, and I began full no contact around 3-4 weeks ago. At this point, I've pretty much accepted that she won't be coming back, and I'm not terribly upset with that. I've held on to false hopes for awhile, but have began to let them slide now. I think the hardest part now is accepting being single. For 2 years she lived with me, hung out daily, and what not. Now here I am, bored out of my mind for the most part. I've practically remodeled my house trying to stay busy. What's the secret to getting used to being single again? Link to post Share on other sites
adamt Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I don't think there is a secret or a quick fix. I think you just have to be patient and let time run its course. What i have been doing for last 2 months is just stay busy, have things going on the backburner, just do something most nights that get you out of the house in around people. My saviour is the gym, people go on their own there so you can just blend in and it takes your mind of the ex. you can look at people too. I also go out with friends at weekends but try not to drink too much. plan trips in the future. go to the cinema with a group of people. go for long walks or get out on a bike..etc Do stuff you wil enjoy and feel good after. Dont get me wrong i am not over her yet, i still miss her all the time but i am better than i was. its the quiet times i find hard to deal with. Link to post Share on other sites
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