sexibanez Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 hi guys, I've recently gotten back in touch with a friend of mine from uni, there was always some chemistry between us but we never did anything as I was in a relationship. Last week we got together to catch up, we had a lovely meal and she totally surprised me with how cool she was! I mean she was funny, smart, gorgeous, and we really hit it off. It really felt like a date and we flirted a bit and stayed until the restaurant kicked us out. We're watching a movie today, and I'm taking her bowling afterwards (she says she is really bad at it but I think it'll be a laugh...) She also gets back to any of my emails or texts almost straight away, and she's always seemed quite keen to meet up and hang out. When I saw her she was asking me about my ex, asking where I was living my future plans etc... BUT I dunno if she is just being friendly, I dunno whether to tell her how I feel or how to take this any further without jepordising our friendship. On top of that I work in London and she lives in my hometown 150 miles away (I'm home for the holidys), so if we did get together it would be an LDR. Heck, I don't know how she feels. Friends say to take it slow, try and gage how she feels, and just have a good time without taking any drastic steps like going in for a kiss etc just yet. What do you think?
Nappyhead Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Sounds to me like she is sending the right signals- ie she could very much be available and interested. If you really want a relationship and are not particularly interested in friendship then you need to tell her. If not leave things as they are...
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