dianna Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 So i've talked to him a week ago ..just friendly talk and then i left for a week ..and told him that he could message me if he wants.Of course he didn't .I came home..wrote in my blog that i was doing fine and that i had fun and that i really changed ( because frankly i did ) .I only checked his blog out of curiosity and yeah he had fun with his friend and he is in peace and all that crap. I just said " Well..that;s it then ".....Well today i went online for a couple of houres, he was online as well and i saw his status he was listening to slow music..sting..out song..etc etc..and that's not him because he's with death metal and other gore stuff. I had to leave my house and after like 5 minutes beep beep ..message from him " Hey Di, what's up?How are you?How was your trip?" .. He sent me the sms half a houre ago and I don't know if I want to reply him...what should I do?I mean..THIS IS SO CONFUSING.My wish was that he would call or txt me when I was in my trip, not now when im home.I have mixed feelings.I truely want to reconcile but I dont feel like txt him.Maybe If i act like this ..being ignorant ..he would realise that he needs more than a txt message to make me even talk to him. I know that we will be togheter in the future ..but..what should i do now? Should I txt or not? Darn
Darren09 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Hmmm Only you can answer this question im afraid. I could tell you not to would that help? No seriously if you love this guy and there is a chance and you BOTH want to be together to hell with it. But you need to work out what your both feeling. The only way to do that is to talk about it. On the other hand if you really feel that this is not what you want then ignore the text and carry on as you are. You sound like you have already made your mind up about him saying you know that you will be together in future.
Author dianna Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 yeah ..i don't know what to do but i'll do something..i started to shake when i saw the txt ..and i still have a shakey feeling..
GrayClouds Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Don't do anything until you can see is messages and not feel "shakey". You want to be in a position of confidence so you can make a proper decision if is actions are matching his words. Read these for guidance: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance?
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