john1988 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 The worst thing for me wasn't the breaking up, it was the lack of respect shown afterwards when my ex thought I was moving on she had to get her claws back in and began stringing me along. If these people had any decency in them they would allow you to grieve and move forward, those who truly ever cared and loved would grant you that privilege. My advice to everyone would be don't get sucked in, I see it time and time again on this site.
bella16 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I agree, and unfortunately I got sucked in 2 weeks ago for the LAST time. I sent my ex a very long email explaining my side of things, since he broke things off over a text message. He read the email and contacted me the next day and said we could meet up the friday of that same week... well his intentions weren't to talk about our situation at all. I went to his house, we drank, and I ended up spending the night, only to hear from him the next night saying he hopes we can stay how we are, and he does not want anything right now. I was crushed...back at square one again. He swears he did not use me one bit...but thats how I felt. The next week he was going on vacation. He calls me that monday before he left, saying how he'll keep in touch while hes away, and he wants to take me somewhere when he gets back. I didn't think nothing of it. He calls the very next night (2 days before he left for vaca) saying he got me something and he wants to give it to me before he left...He asked me to come over so I did, only thinking I was picking up what he got me. I get there and he asks me to hangout with him for a while, so I do. We were watching tv, soon after we were kissing, nothing else. I leave and don't hear from him the entire week he was gone. And he still tells me he does not want a relationship! What is up with the mixed signals then??? I didn't call you to hangout, you called me! I made the mistake of not saying no, but I am so in love with him, its hard to say no. He knows damn well how I'm feeling about everything, but still insists on stringing me along...he is not the man I met 6 months ago. All this has done was make it worse on me and put me right back at the beginning. If you don't want ANYTHING then DON'T ask to hangout and call me!!!!! Now, I told him I'm finally letting go and moving on. I told him I need to see whoelse is out there for me since it isn't him. Sorry to be babbling, but it just frustrates me. I know months from now when he does want something, hes gonna contact me...and I cannot wait to tell him to f*** off!!!!
Author john1988 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 I agree, and unfortunately I got sucked in 2 weeks ago for the LAST time. I sent my ex a very long email explaining my side of things, since he broke things off over a text message. He read the email and contacted me the next day and said we could meet up the friday of that same week... well his intentions weren't to talk about our situation at all. I went to his house, we drank, and I ended up spending the night, only to hear from him the next night saying he hopes we can stay how we are, and he does not want anything right now. I was crushed...back at square one again. He swears he did not use me one bit...but thats how I felt. The next week he was going on vacation. He calls me that monday before he left, saying how he'll keep in touch while hes away, and he wants to take me somewhere when he gets back. I didn't think nothing of it. He calls the very next night (2 days before he left for vaca) saying he got me something and he wants to give it to me before he left...He asked me to come over so I did, only thinking I was picking up what he got me. I get there and he asks me to hangout with him for a while, so I do. We were watching tv, soon after we were kissing, nothing else. I leave and don't hear from him the entire week he was gone. And he still tells me he does not want a relationship! What is up with the mixed signals then??? I didn't call you to hangout, you called me! I made the mistake of not saying no, but I am so in love with him, its hard to say no. He knows damn well how I'm feeling about everything, but still insists on stringing me along...he is not the man I met 6 months ago. All this has done was make it worse on me and put me right back at the beginning. If you don't want ANYTHING then DON'T ask to hangout and call me!!!!! Now, I told him I'm finally letting go and moving on. I told him I need to see whoelse is out there for me since it isn't him. Sorry to be babbling, but it just frustrates me. I know months from now when he does want something, hes gonna contact me...and I cannot wait to tell him to f*** off!!!! Stay strong make sure you stick to it, boredom and inactivity brings them back it's sickening, it's them I feel sorry for, they try to drag us down with them. I genuinely believe people are twisted, tell him where to go.
greenparrot Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 im having such a hard time with this, she always contacts me after 3 days: stating she wants to talk. My gullable heart falls for it always, and she sets a time and place, only to leave me stood up. I too just sent my email, begging her to leave me alone.
silic0ntoad Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 im having such a hard time with this, she always contacts me after 3 days: stating she wants to talk. My gullable heart falls for it always, and she sets a time and place, only to leave me stood up. I too just sent my email, begging her to leave me alone. Don't beg her. Command her to do so. Tell her, knock it the **** off or I'll file harassment charges. Don't cling to false hope bro.
greenparrot Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 i know, it odd because your not used to a person you knew so well be so different. Its like my mom betraying me everytime, Im just not used to it, thats why I believe her. I guess people do change out of the blue.
bella16 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Stay strong make sure you stick to it, boredom and inactivity brings them back it's sickening, it's them I feel sorry for, they try to drag us down with them. I genuinely believe people are twisted, tell him where to go. Thank you! I am barely ever bored. I work full-time during the week, and I take kickboxing classes at night during the week also. I have friends who I spend a lot of time with. Right now I have 2 trips to look forward to... labor day weekend me and the girls are going away, I reallllly need that! And november I'll be going to Disney World with my whole family, so Im looking forward to that. Being bored just isn't an option for me right now. I'm just so fed up, im not even sad anymore...just angry and it makes me not want to think about or talk to him!
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