SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Me and my partner are sharing a cell phone at the moment I usually clear all the old stuff out every night not that I'm trying to be nosy! Ive always done this even before I met him force of habit well last night as I as clearing the texts I saw an outgoing one that said "whats going on sweetie" or something like that. And then today out of no were he asks me how to get to face book I know I'm just overreacting Ive sent male friends text that say "hi Hun" and stuff so some one just tell me I'm overreacting thanks!
Lucky_One Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Sorry, I can't tell you that you are over-reacting. I would ask him about it. Face to face.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Sorry, I can't tell you that you are over-reacting. I would ask him about it. Face to face. Thats what I was afraid of but then again Ive herd him call friends sweetie on the phone and like I said Ive done similar text that were Innocent myself. Its not totally eating at me like it wasn't all that was on my mind today but I didn't erase it ether. I'm going to look again tonight and see whats new in the out/in box. He did ask me as I was looking at my cell today what are you looking for there I go again over thinking ugh..
Pink Cupcakes Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Call the person he sent the text to and find out what is going on.
Thornton Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I'd ask him about it, because personally I feel uncomfortable calling someone honey or sweetie if I'm not in a relationship with them - not only does it send the wrong message to them and their partner if they have one, but it's also disrespectful to my partner imho. Perhaps it's normal for both of you to talk to other people in that manner, but I don't do it and I wouldn't expect my bf to do it. Even if he normally talked to certain friends in that way, I'd insist he had to stop out of respect for our relationship.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Call the person he sent the text to and find out what is going on. Thats a little to drastic for my liking besides if a female answers it doesn't prove anything not like shes going to say oh yes you have me guess were busted! lol... I don't know I'm usually the 1st to be overly upset about stuff like this but for some reason I'm not I'm just wondering but not really upset I don't think its anything bad guess ill see if theres more tonight... If so then yes I am going to ask casually what its about.. I guess I just don't want to come off as not trusting him all the time or anything ya know or over jealous or anything..
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