buttacup Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I had a wonderful first date with this guy. The second time (which was the following weekend) he wanted to get together he suggested going to starbucks as opposed to a more formal place. I told him I would see if we could get together but I got really busy and we didn't get together. He talked a lot about thinking of me and missing me and wanting to see me but I don't understand why he wouldn't make plans. When a guy actually has plans that just says a lot to me. He also was kind of all over me and we kissed. The date also lasted about 8 hours and we had a good time. I hope I didn't lead him on to think I wanted sex. Why would a guy do this?
Author buttacup Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 He has also called almost everyday since. Should I have met him even though he asked me last minute? Please Help.
Chicago_Guy Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Where do you go on the first date? Was it somewhere more formal than a Starbucks? It sounds like he doesn't want to spend much money on you.
Author buttacup Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 I was thinking that too. We went to an air show which is free then we went to grab something to eat at a restaurant where he had a coupon. Its funny now that I think about it.
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Why would a guy do what? Have an eight hour first date with you, then call and text you about how much he's thinking of you and missing you? Desperation is the first thought that pops into mind.
Author buttacup Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Vet, why do you say he was desperate ? He is a pretty good looking guy that can probably get sex anytime he wants. I'm pretty fly my self and was also into him but I wasn't gonna do that. Also at the end of the date he did ask if I wanted to go to his house to watch a movie. I respectfully declined. Either he is cheap or just wanted sex.
BCCA Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 He is a pretty good looking guy that can probably get sex anytime he wants I'm a good looking guy, and I can assure you women arent falling over themselves to get into my bedroom. Looks can help to get you laid, but dont assume he can just walk out of his apartment and find someone to have sex with him easily. Also at the end of the date he did ask if I wanted to go to his house to watch a movie Do you really think he wanted to watch a movie? No, he wanted to sleep with you. Either he is cheap or just wanted sex. Im thinking both. Ive NEVER used a coupon on a date, or suggested Starbucks on the second date. Sounds like he wanted a cheap lay.
Author buttacup Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Its really unfortunate but I also think you're right. Not gonna fly with me. Now he has to go to the back of the line!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 25, 2009 Posted August 25, 2009 I was thinking that too. We went to an air show which is free then we went to grab something to eat at a restaurant where he had a coupon. Its funny now that I think about it. Don't they tell you in women 101 not to give a second thought to a guy who uses a COUPON for dinner on your first date? Stop thinking about this guy immediately!
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