Unspoken Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Hey, I've posted a thread here about my relationship with my girlfriend and how things got bad to me and how I felt that there was something wrong with her since she seemed that she's pulling out and we don't spend much time togther. I took one of the member's advice that I should give her speace and control my emotions and once I done that things got a little bit werid!! she started asking me " Baby are you okay?" "Honey is there anything upsetting you" and I keep on saying "no everything is okay". I'm really confused, cause it looks like she still cares about me, and right now I'm confused and asking myself all the time " If she cares about me why she doesn't spend much time with me the way we used to? and why she's pulling out? I'm really confused cause I really don't know what is going on?? I don't want to lose her, but yet I can't stand it!! So anyone with experince please tell me what to do the best anyone just tell me why she's acting so werid??
Exit Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Communication is the key to success. Whoever said to just back off and pretend that you're okay was... well... wrong. You first felt like she was getting distant, and now she feels like you're pulling away. This will cause tension and just lead to bigger problems. Sit down and talk about the problems. Now that she noticed you were acting differently, sit down and tell her why. See what she has to say about it.
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