Darren09 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 ok i found some pretty horrible stuff out tonight.....apparantly my ex was sending pics to this other guy while we were still together?? i swear i feel abserlutley sick!!! how could she do this to me and pretend everythings ok. She doesnt even speak to me anymore so i cant say any of this to her. I am so hurt the pain is just horrible. The love of my life could really do this to me. Dont know what to do now fallen rite back on my arse
DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Darren, sorry that you are hurting. How did you find out?
Author Darren09 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 I have a friend who knows her and apparantly she was bragging about it all or something pathetic like that.... i new something was seriously wrong but never ever crossed my mind that she was capable of anything like this...... totally shocked really am..... Gutted!
DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Damn, what a b*tch...just completely classless. The fact that all of us are on here is because we do have/had deep feelings for our ex but every so often things like this happen (or in my case my ex trying to get me fired from my job) where you just have to shake your head and say, "wow, I can't believe I didn't see this side of them". It came out in both of our cases, but i'm glad it did sooner than latter. My ex was my first love when I was 17 years old. I went out with others and then reconnected with her 10 years later, and then well...you know my story. I guess what I am saying is that first loves are so special because you don't have anything to compare it to...not because they are the person you are supposed to be with.
Author Darren09 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Its just a massive shock to everyone, even my family cant believe whats happened. I genuinly feel as though i cant trust anyone at all. When she broke up with me it was nothing but blame onto me. Now i realise that shes doing this to make sure she looks like a ***in angel. As for your ex trying to get u fired is outrageous...... these people say they love us and make us believe that they are genuine and then booom WTF??? i wont even try to figure out why this happens am just going to accept that i dont understand and never will. I have to agree with you that this has happened now because imagine if i started a family with this girl... which was the plan. theres too much i dont know about her deep down and that really hurts that i never got to see her true colours before fallin head ova heels for her. stupid cow i hope she gets whats comin to her i really do.
singledad2 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I have no doubt that she will get what she deserves. If you leave it to the big judge of all judges, he will take your pain, double it and give it to her. Its really not our place to judge on earth, but we sure as heck can evaluate folks and it sounds like you have a pretty solid evaluation: Good thing you did not get a family started. It is too late for me. I have kids and a question mark for a wife and mother to them. Sorry for the pain, but consider this a great blessing. You get the opportunity to look for someone that is not like her.
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