Pink Cupcakes Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 The guy is trash, just like the girl. They deserve each other. You want a guy who won't just settle for trash.
northstar1 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Let me reiterate my post. There can be 2 women in the room. One is let's just say a Megan Fox look alike. The other girl looks like Robin Williams. However, the girl that looks like Robin Williams is drunk, slutty, and open to every advance a guy makes. The Megan Fox look alike is more closed off. It's not saying she's bitchy, but she's just got her natural defenses up and she's not willing to get herself in a compromised situation that she wants no part of. Now one drunk guy goes into the room. He sees it as this in his drunken haze. Getting to the Megan Fox girl is like trying to break into Fort Knox. The Robin Williams girl is like a backwoods bank in the middle of no where with no guards and the bank vault is left open. Which one do you think he's going to go after? Guys are not complicated creatures. Our natural instinct is to breed for the good of our species. We still have animal instincts that say not every baby from every mother will live so in effort to diversify the species we need to spread things out. You have to remember, modern medicine is toying with our most base animal logic. So despite the fact that I'm sitting here writing this on a laptop, connected to a wireless signal, drinking my $14 cup of coffee, wearing synthetic fibers, having ridden here in a hybrid-electric bus, and the fact that hydroelectric power is flowing through this town. If you remove that and focus on my animal instincts, I'm not too far removed from that dirty ape hanging from the tree who just wants to make sure he has one child survive to carry on his genes. Remember, humans have only really been modernized for just under a few thousand years. That's not very long considering the scheme of things on this planet. So you are saying you've gone home with some ugly, hirsute tramps in your life? Sorry dude, drunk or not, and even due to the fact we share 98% of the same genetic code as Chimps, I'm not gonna go home with a Robin Williams village bike. Given those two choices (standoffish hot chick or slutty mork from ork), I'm gonna opt for choice 3, go home alone and wank to some good old fashion porn.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 That wasn't mature, tkgirl. um... ok??? I'm not out to pick a fight with you... I just found some things you said extremely funny is all. like it should be in penthouse letters or something "... as the drunken, albeit gorgeous, skank decided to stop flirting with every other guy at the party and instead she'd lovingly flash her tits to him... he began to feel so.. special" :lmao:
BCCA Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Its not so much feeling special as it is feeling like a man. She showed sexuality by flashing her boobs, albeit not in the classiest way, which sparked his interest. Sitting and talking for an hour could have been great, but I can promise you that he still wasnt positive where you stood on him. The girl who flashed herself made it crystal clear immediately; she wanted his attention, and was willing to show her boobs to get it. Now, Im not saying you have to show yourself to get a guys attention, but you have to do something. How would he know you were interested in more than talking? Obviously, if he was pulled away by the site of boobs, he didnt. If you want a guy, let him know youre into him. I have to think 90% of guys would have done the same thing. We are sexual creatures, trying to pretend that he's 'trash' for this is just making excuses. You need to be more upfront and direct with your wants, otherwise, you run the risk of people not getting the sublte hints. I really dont see what this guy did as wrong. He was single, a hot girl flashed her boobs, he went with it.
sweetjasmine Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 like it should be in penthouse letters or something "... as the drunken, albeit gorgeous, skank decided to stop flirting with every other guy at the party and instead she'd lovingly flash her tits to him... he began to feel so.. special" :lmao: And then ten years later: "So how did you guys meet?" "Well, it's the funniest story. I was at a house party, and she was so drunk she came right up to me and flashed her tits. It made me feel so special, knowing that she would automatically give me what I desired, that I knew right then and there that this was the woman I was going to spend the rest of my life with. "
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Its not so much feeling special as it is feeling like a man. She showed sexuality by flashing her boobs, albeit not in the classiest way, which sparked his interest. Sitting and talking for an hour could have been great, but I can promise you that he still wasnt positive where you stood on him. The girl who flashed herself made it crystal clear immediately; she wanted his attention, and was willing to show her boobs to get it. Now, Im not saying you have to show yourself to get a guys attention, but you have to do something. How would he know you were interested in more than talking? Obviously, if he was pulled away by the site of boobs, he didnt. If you want a guy, let him know youre into him. I have to think 90% of guys would have done the same thing. We are sexual creatures, trying to pretend that he's 'trash' for this is just making excuses. You need to be more upfront and direct with your wants, otherwise, you run the risk of people not getting the sublte hints. I really dont see what this guy did as wrong. He was single, a hot girl flashed her boobs, he went with it. so next time I see a guy I like, I have a better chance with him if I flash him my boobs... seriously, is that what 90% of all you guys really want? Some drunk girl to walk up to you and do that? I get that in the moment yea, of course most of you guys would go for it... but let's get real. This kind of girl holds your attention for only so long...
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 And then ten years later: "So how did you guys meet?" "Well, it's the funniest story. I was at a house party, and she was so drunk she came right up to me and flashed her tits. It made me feel so special, knowing that she would automatically give me what I desired, that I knew right then and there that this was the woman I was going to spend the rest of my life with. " thank you! that's what I'm saying!
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I personally wouldn't want to date a guy who only needs a tit flash to initiate a make out session. If the guy was looking for something real, he'd have stuck it out with BW instead of going with the flasher. And I think he's got some balls to make out with this girl, in front of BW, then call her the next day. He's making his rounds for sure.
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 so next time I see a guy I like, I have a better chance with him if I flash him my boobs... seriously, is that what 90% of all you guys really want? Some drunk girl to walk up to you and do that? I get that in the moment yea, of course most of you guys would go for it... but let's get real. This kind of girl holds your attention for only so long... It sucks that this is what you garnered from his post.
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Can you imagine guys flashing their 'junk' to get attention?
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Can you imagine guys flashing their 'junk' to get attention? Imagine it? Just stroll down to your local park or ride your public bus, and I'm sure you won't have to imagine...
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Imagine it? Just stroll down to your local park or ride your public bus, and I'm sure you won't have to imagine... I meant at parties and what not
BCCA Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Youre missing the entire point, which is that the flashing girl laid her cards on the line, let him know she was interested. The other girl, obviously, did not. This has nothing to do with boobs or flashing, except for thats how she relayed interest. Guys ARE going to go down the path of least resistance, toward a girl that makes it known that she is interested. This happened at a party, and he had probably been drinking himself. She didnt do enough to show her interest, so he wasnt sure there was any, and again - went down the path of least resistance. If you want to keep making this about the drunk chick and showing boobs, be my guest, but thats not entirely the point.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 It sucks that this is what you garnered from his post. yeah it does suck... but it's like he's saying that most men are like that... just sexual creatures with no feelings at all... and I refuse to believe that. Can you imagine guys flashing their 'junk' to get attention? I'm sure they would if they thought it would get them anywhere with us!
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I think a girl who is flashing herself to someone (and obviously other people who were in the same room), says a lot about the type of person she is. The fact that the guy went for her says a lot about the type of girl he's into.
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 yeah it does suck... but it's like he's saying that most men are like that... just sexual creatures with no feelings at all... and I refuse to believe that. No, it sucks that you didn't understand his post. Go back and read his reply to you.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Youre missing the entire point, which is that the flashing girl laid her cards on the line, let him know she was interested. The other girl, obviously, did not. This has nothing to do with boobs or flashing, except for thats how she relayed interest. Guys ARE going to go down the path of least resistance, toward a girl that makes it known that she is interested. This happened at a party, and he had probably been drinking himself. She didnt do enough to show her interest, so he wasnt sure there was any, and again - went down the path of least resistance. If you want to keep making this about the drunk chick and showing boobs, be my guest, but thats not entirely the point. but it is the point! no girl with any class would do something like that. And please.. do you really think he was that "special" that she only flashed her tits to him that night? She was out to get laid... he took the bait... end of story...
BCCA Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I think a girl who is flashing herself to someone (and obviously other people who were in the same room), says a lot about the type of person she is. The fact that the guy went for her says a lot about the type of girl he's into. I disagree. I think she was probably drunk, and has a hot body, so figured what easier way to get attention? Yeah, not realy classy, but they are at a party where everyone is drinking, not at a formal ball. He could be into her for a night, is there anything wrong with that? He is a male, and has needs, and could very well have no idea where he stood with that other girl. Should he turn down what is essentially 'free pickings', with a hot girl, for the chance to maybe possibly someday date this other woman? Come on, thats asking a bit much, no?
Pink Cupcakes Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 These people are not going to end up together. They are going to end up so corroded with STDs they won't be able to have sex with anyone. QUOTE=sweetjasmine;2346331]And then ten years later: "So how did you guys meet?" "Well, it's the funniest story. I was at a house party, and she was so drunk she came right up to me and flashed her tits. It made me feel so special, knowing that she would automatically give me what I desired, that I knew right then and there that this was the woman I was going to spend the rest of my life with. "
BCCA Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 but it is the point! no girl with any class would do something like that. And please.. do you really think he was that "special" that she only flashed her tits to him that night? She was out to get laid... he took the bait... end of story... I never said special, you have me confused with someone else. And he was probably out to get laid, too, so again - whats the problem here?
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 No, it sucks that you didn't understand his post. Go back and read his reply to you. I did get what you meant and I did read his post... and he made some good points... I just don't agree with him is all. But thanks for trying to school me nonetheless...
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I did get what you meant and I did read his post... and he made some good points... I just don't agree with him is all. But thanks for trying to school me nonetheless... Oh, so you're just willfully being obtuse. Okay then.
Phateless Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 so next time I see a guy I like, I have a better chance with him if I flash him my boobs... seriously, is that what 90% of all you guys really want? Some drunk girl to walk up to you and do that? I get that in the moment yea, of course most of you guys would go for it... but let's get real. This kind of girl holds your attention for only so long... Getting my attention is one thing, holding it is quite another. Most guys would love that. As far as holding my attention and staying with her, it depends entirely on who she is as a person and has very little to do with the outrageous way we met. Now I do get what you're saying - the kind of girl who does that often does not turn out to be relationship material. But that does not guarantee that she won't be. Correlation does not represent causation.
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I remember the Bachelor .. London Calling... The very first night, this girl slips her panties in his pocket. Trying to stand out, yes, did it work, no. I realize that life isn't like t.v., but I'm using it as an example. A guy looking for something serious isn't going to start a make out session with a flasher after hearing from BW that she's interested in him. He's looking for fun.
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