bluewolf17 Posted August 23, 2009 Posted August 23, 2009 So I go to the house party last night with my brother and his friends, and lo and behold, a old friend of mine is there. He's this guy I always thought was cute-a talented musician, very funny, with a great sharp wit..anyhow I have had a little crush on him but I have always had a boyfriend so I kept my distance. Now that I am single I figured all bets were off:p So we end up chatting on the front porch, just him and I for a good hour. Things are going really well, and he tells me he has always liked me and saw me as "a catch". But that I was with (the ex) so he never was able to tell me that. Anyways we chat for awhile more, then go inside to mingle... get this..There is this VERY DRUNK girl (who is also very gorgeous). She is pretty much being touchy grabby with every guy in site..and of course she goes up to the guy I was talking to and starts drunk flirting with him..FLASHES HIM HER BOOBS IN FRONT OF ME and then asks him what he thinks of them...etc. I walked away. When I left they were making out in the kitchen. Should I be upset? Probably not. If that's what he likes then I have no interest in him. On the other hand THAT SUCKS! Drunk skanky girls win another round.
Thaddeus Posted August 23, 2009 Posted August 23, 2009 Damn! Howcum I never get invited to parties like that?
Author bluewolf17 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 Ha ha..I don't know! Actually, I hadn't been to a house party in years (except for the one's I throw). I remember now why I stopped going...and starting throwing my own:cool:
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 So I go to the house party last night with my brother and his friends, and lo and behold, a old friend of mine is there. He's this guy I always thought was cute-a talented musician, very funny, with a great sharp wit..anyhow I have had a little crush on him but I have always had a boyfriend so I kept my distance. Now that I am single I figured all bets were off:p So we end up chatting on the front porch, just him and I for a good hour. Things are going really well, and he tells me he has always liked me and saw me as "a catch". But that I was with (the ex) so he never was able to tell me that. Anyways we chat for awhile more, then go inside to mingle... get this..There is this VERY DRUNK girl (who is also very gorgeous). She is pretty much being touchy grabby with every guy in site..and of course she goes up to the guy I was talking to and starts drunk flirting with him..FLASHES HIM HER BOOBS IN FRONT OF ME and then asks him what he thinks of them...etc. I walked away. When I left they were making out in the kitchen. Should I be upset? Probably not. If that's what he likes then I have no interest in him. On the other hand THAT SUCKS! Drunk skanky girls win another round. more like a dumb pair of tits wins again! that does suck though... but yeah, if that's all he's about right now.. hooking up with whatever girl dumb enough to stoop to something like that, then good riddance! Dumb and dumber belong together... I give it a week. Ah heck, more like a night (last night). Just don't forget that you ARE a catch and have waaaaaay more class than that bimbo!
Citizen Erased Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Huh so all I need to do is flash guys at parties and I get to kitchen pash with them? Thanks for the tip.
Green Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Huh so all I need to do is flash guys at parties and I get to kitchen pash with them? Thanks for the tip. don't forget the part about flirting with every guy at the party and being obviously drunk
Citizen Erased Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 don't forget the part about flirting with every guy at the party and being obviously drunk Yeah I do that anyway.
WTRanger Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Guys, like water, will always flow towards the path of least resistance.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 OMFG. His "affections" are extremely fickle if all it takes is a boob flash to turn his eye away from you. No, I wouldn't be upset, either. He sounds like a loser. Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet.
Hkizzle Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Guys, like water, will always flow towards the path of least resistance. Hey that's a pretty good saying!
lucy9216 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Hmmmm.... this drunk girl was flirting with every guy at the party and the only one that went for it was the guy you were talking to? I think she did you a favor by letting you know what he is really like before anything happened.
dreamergrl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Few girls like girls like that... but come on. As disgusting to us as it is, the guy was obviously not what you thought if he could just bend over for any chick with tits flashing.
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 So I go to the house party last night with my brother and his friends, and lo and behold, a old friend of mine is there. He's this guy I always thought was cute-a talented musician, very funny, with a great sharp wit..anyhow I have had a little crush on him but I have always had a boyfriend so I kept my distance. Now that I am single I figured all bets were off:p So we end up chatting on the front porch, just him and I for a good hour. Things are going really well, and he tells me he has always liked me and saw me as "a catch". But that I was with (the ex) so he never was able to tell me that. Anyways we chat for awhile more, then go inside to mingle... get this..There is this VERY DRUNK girl (who is also very gorgeous). She is pretty much being touchy grabby with every guy in site..and of course she goes up to the guy I was talking to and starts drunk flirting with him..FLASHES HIM HER BOOBS IN FRONT OF ME and then asks him what he thinks of them...etc. I walked away. When I left they were making out in the kitchen. Should I be upset? Probably not. If that's what he likes then I have no interest in him. On the other hand THAT SUCKS! Drunk skanky girls win another round. To offer a different point of view, it doesn't sound like you really made your feelings that you like him known, right? Secondly, you don't know who this girl was, correct? It could've been someone he actually knew previously, maybe even an ex. For all the demonetizations of her (and "skanky" women everywhere), she did make her intentions known, and got what she wanted as a result. You don't have to flash your tits to do it, but step up if you want to attain what you desire.
northstar1 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Few girls like girls like that... but come on. As disgusting to us as it is, the guy was obviously not what you thought if he could just bend over for any chick with tits flashing. I'm surprised the pictures won't be up on facebook soon, everything else ends up on there
BentSpine Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I second Vet's point of view. What did you do to make him feel good? In her case I dare say it wasn't the boobs but the prospect of sex that she offered him. So why would he choose you? A small chance of sex someway in the future? Companionship in the future? Talking for an hour may be nice but it won't remove the pressing need for sex that some men have. When you're thirsty, plain water immediately is preferred to remaining thirsty and MAYBE having a beer tomorrow. And I fear that you haven't accepted the deep need for sex that men have, and you resent it.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 I second Vet's point of view. What did you do to make him feel good? In her case I dare say it wasn't the boobs but the prospect of sex that she offered him. So why would he choose you? A small chance of sex someway in the future? Companionship in the future? Talking for an hour may be nice but it won't remove the pressing need for sex that some men have. When you're thirsty, plain water immediately is preferred to remaining thirsty and MAYBE having a beer tomorrow. And I fear that you haven't accepted the deep need for sex that men have, and you resent it. whoa... just because BlueWolf has way more class and didn't jump on him right away? The guy is the loser here... all he really wanted that night was to get laid and that pair of tits is probably history already. I feel bad for BW... she said she had a crush on him for a while and it seemed like maybe things were finally going to happen... only to see what the guy is really about about very quickly after. That sucks.. but I guess it's better to know things like that right away?
WTRanger Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Guys, like water, will always flow towards the path of least resistance. Let me reiterate my post. There can be 2 women in the room. One is let's just say a Megan Fox look alike. The other girl looks like Robin Williams. However, the girl that looks like Robin Williams is drunk, slutty, and open to every advance a guy makes. The Megan Fox look alike is more closed off. It's not saying she's bitchy, but she's just got her natural defenses up and she's not willing to get herself in a compromised situation that she wants no part of. Now one drunk guy goes into the room. He sees it as this in his drunken haze. Getting to the Megan Fox girl is like trying to break into Fort Knox. The Robin Williams girl is like a backwoods bank in the middle of no where with no guards and the bank vault is left open. Which one do you think he's going to go after? Guys are not complicated creatures. Our natural instinct is to breed for the good of our species. We still have animal instincts that say not every baby from every mother will live so in effort to diversify the species we need to spread things out. You have to remember, modern medicine is toying with our most base animal logic. So despite the fact that I'm sitting here writing this on a laptop, connected to a wireless signal, drinking my $14 cup of coffee, wearing synthetic fibers, having ridden here in a hybrid-electric bus, and the fact that hydroelectric power is flowing through this town. If you remove that and focus on my animal instincts, I'm not too far removed from that dirty ape hanging from the tree who just wants to make sure he has one child survive to carry on his genes. Remember, humans have only really been modernized for just under a few thousand years. That's not very long considering the scheme of things on this planet.
Vet Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 whoa... just because BlueWolf has way more class and didn't jump on him right away? The guy is the loser here... all he really wanted that night was to get laid and that pair of tits is probably history already. I feel bad for BW... she said she had a crush on him for a while and it seemed like maybe things were finally going to happen... only to see what the guy is really about about very quickly after. That sucks.. but I guess it's better to know things like that right away? To back up your signature, let's not jump to generalizations and conclusions. She admits that the last thing she saw was them making out. She has no idea if he slept with her or not. Bluewolf17 didn't have to expose herself and take him to bed, but I hope that she let her interest in him be known. Maybe she did and he wasn't interested, or maybe he felt rejected by telling her was a catch and she didn't reciprocate. We don't know what happened in the "chat" after he said that. Bottom line: quit judging this guy on missing information; there's always two sides to it.
Author bluewolf17 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Posted August 24, 2009 On a side note, he called me last night. He wanted to know why/when I left..he's like "I thought we could chat a little more". Maybe you guys are on to somthing. I am a little demure, and maybe he had no idea I "dug" him. But honestly, I don't care today. That visual picture will be in my head now whenever I see him, and despite the fact that "'I'm a catch", he made his choice pretty clear. But it's quite allright now. God dating again is SOOOO fun.
stillafool Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 don't forget the part about flirting with every guy at the party and being obviously drunk yeah, and being gorgeous helps also.
BentSpine Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Dear tkgirl, I'm going reply to your valuable post. Not as an attack, but simply because it's too tiresome for me to compose from scratch.whoa... just because BlueWolf has way more class and didn't jump on him right away?That's one way of looking at it. Another is that by exposing her breasts only to him, she made him feel special and gave him a strong signal of interest so that he could dare to believe that she lovingly wanted to give him wanted he needed the most at that moment. The guy is the loser here...That's not an entirely fair judgement. I believe the guy's behaviour would be replicated by a large fraction of men in the same situation. So large that criticising him is that same as criticising the entire male gender. all he really wanted that night was to get laidHe could very well want companionship if it is presented to him but the need for sex was more pressing. Like the need for sleep every night doesn't wipe out the want to travel abroad for example. only to see what the guy is really about about very quickly after. That sucks.. but I guess it's better to know things like that right away?Now what?! That guys want sex? I fail to see the big discovery here that apparently the women here do see.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 To back up your signature, let's not jump to generalizations and conclusions. She admits that the last thing she saw was them making out. She has no idea if he slept with her or not. Bluewolf17 didn't have to expose herself and take him to bed, but I hope that she let her interest in him be known. Maybe she did and he wasn't interested, or maybe he felt rejected by telling her was a catch and she didn't reciprocate. We don't know what happened in the "chat" after he said that. Bottom line: quit judging this guy on missing information; there's always two sides to it. point taken.. oh and my "signature" is supposed to be a joke.... ALL generalizations are bad... get it? oh, never mind... but you're right, there definitely are two sides to every story. But even if he didn't go home with the skank, all she had to do was flash him her tits.. and right in front of BW too.. and the last thing she sees is them two making out. I'm just saying she dodged a huge bullet is all... On a side note, he called me last night. He wanted to know why/when I left..he's like "I thought we could chat a little more". Maybe you guys are on to somthing. I am a little demure, and maybe he had no idea I "dug" him. But honestly, I don't care today. That visual picture will be in my head now whenever I see him, and despite the fact that "'I'm a catch", he made his choice pretty clear. But it's quite allright now. God dating again is SOOOO fun. hmmmm... interesting that he called you! I wonder if he even would want to call miss tits again... unless he just wants to get laid. IMO... class wins over trash every time. But it sounds like you already realized this guy is no prize.. so... NEXT! yea.. isn't dating a blast?
Phateless Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 So I go to the house party last night with my brother and his friends, and lo and behold, a old friend of mine is there. He's this guy I always thought was cute-a talented musician, very funny, with a great sharp wit..anyhow I have had a little crush on him but I have always had a boyfriend so I kept my distance. Now that I am single I figured all bets were off:p So we end up chatting on the front porch, just him and I for a good hour. Things are going really well, and he tells me he has always liked me and saw me as "a catch". But that I was with (the ex) so he never was able to tell me that. Anyways we chat for awhile more, then go inside to mingle... get this..There is this VERY DRUNK girl (who is also very gorgeous). She is pretty much being touchy grabby with every guy in site..and of course she goes up to the guy I was talking to and starts drunk flirting with him..FLASHES HIM HER BOOBS IN FRONT OF ME and then asks him what he thinks of them...etc. I walked away. When I left they were making out in the kitchen. Should I be upset? Probably not. If that's what he likes then I have no interest in him. On the other hand THAT SUCKS! Drunk skanky girls win another round. With all due respect, she made the bolder move first. If you had kissed him when you confided your crush, this probably wouldn't have happened. I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm just trying to put it in perspective. If you want something, go get it.
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Dear tkgirl, I'm going reply to your valuable post. Not as an attack, but simply because it's too tiresome for me to compose from scratch.That's one way of looking at it. Another is that by exposing her breasts only to him, she made him feel special and gave him a strong signal of interest so that he could dare to believe that she lovingly wanted to give him wanted he needed the most at that moment. That's not an entirely fair judgement. I believe the guy's behaviour would be replicated by a large fraction of men in the same situation. So large that criticising him is that same as criticising the entire male gender. He could very well want companionship if it is presented to him but the need for sex was more pressing. Like the need for sleep every night doesn't wipe out the want to travel abroad for example. Now what?! That guys want sex? I fail to see the big discovery here that apparently the women here do see. :lmao: seriuosly? first of all, drunk chick who was flirting with every guy and then decides to flash her tits to him made him feel "special"? and then you go on to write "and gave him a strong signal of interest so that he could dare to believe that she lovingly wanted to give him wanted he needed the most at that moment." :lmao::lmao: seriously... I can't even think of how to respond to that one... if I could just stop laughing maybe I'll think of something... :lmao::lmao:
tkgirl Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 With all due respect, she made the bolder move first. If you had kissed him when you confided your crush, this probably wouldn't have happened. I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm just trying to put it in perspective. If you want something, go get it. ok.. this I do agree with!
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