silic0ntoad Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Is this a question? Or what you got from him/her?
dianna Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 if he/she told you that well let me say to you that my bf did the same thing ..go NC
GrayClouds Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 "i need to be by myself right now" translated: there is someone else I want to be with.
Bobby2010 Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 "I want to start a new life with a new person."
DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 come on guys, it doesn't always mean that. It just means that they don't want to be with you anymore, plain and simple.
GrayClouds Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 come on guys, it doesn't always mean that. It just means that No "I don't want to be with you anymore" means they don't want to be with you anymore, plain and simple. (99.9 out of 100 times) "i need to be by myself right now" means they are not going to be honest with you because they are hiding something. (98.9 out of 100 times)
DustySaltus Posted August 24, 2009 Posted August 24, 2009 No "I don't want to be with you anymore" means they don't want to be with you anymore, plain and simple. (99.9 out of 100 times) "i need to be by myself right now" means they are not going to be honest with you because they are hiding something. (98.9 out of 100 times) "I need some time to think things over", that's when they are REALLY hiding something.
Author rastafari Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 i had a anxiety attack (really) when i read everyones responses... here is a link to the story, let me know if you still feal the same way...i guess its possible... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t200032/
Author rastafari Posted August 28, 2009 Author Posted August 28, 2009 ps. i told her to do whats best for her... she said she didnt view it that way, she said that she thought it would be best for us? i also mentioned that if she got with anyone else to not bother calling me, like she said she would. weird thing is she has some of my things and i still have her house and car keys. i wanted this too, but didnt tell her. she knew though im sure.
Lish Posted August 28, 2009 Posted August 28, 2009 ps. i told her to do whats best for her... she said she didnt view it that way, she said that she thought it would be best for us? i also mentioned that if she got with anyone else to not bother calling me, like she said she would. weird thing is she has some of my things and i still have her house and car keys. i wanted this too, but didnt tell her. she knew though im sure. Hi again It doesn't really matter what it's translated into... the fact of the matter is the relationship is over. And remember, you are no longer with her and unfortunately, whether she gets with 150 guys over the next week, 5 guys or zero, it's got nothing to do with you. It may hurt to find out, but you have nothing to gain from dwelling on it. Nor should you think you are not good enough for her. Some things just aint meant to be I'm afraid and some people just don't gel. If you played any part in the breakdown whatsoever, learn from them. That's all ya can do. Like one of the other posters said... go NC completely(if she's still trying to contact you) and tell her it's non-negotiable. Be strong. Depending on what stuff she has that belongs to you... if she has something that's worth something (money or sentimental value), then you need to get it back; if it's two pairs of boxers, then I'm sure you can cut the cost. I'd advise only contacting her to arrange the exchange of belongings. Nothing more. And when that's done, go into strict NC, walk out the door and start living your life again. I hope you can move on A.S.A.P. Good luck
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