Optimism Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Today is day 5 of not reaching out. Mornings are usually rough and I have been tempted to send an email or post a comment on her Yahoo profile. One thing I am finding is that as I am not contacting her, I do not get anxious checking my phone and email to see if she has reached out to me. I suppose as I am not reaching out I am not expecting a response. The last time we talked she told me she loves me and needs time to think and that she will tell me her decision when she has had time. Reflecting on this I did reach out to her at least 10 times after that so I was not really giving her time and was being pushy. Though not contacting her is not fun, it does allow me to keep my self respect while letting her think. Just as I can not turn off my emotions, I am sure she is thinking about me as well. Without my reassuring emails, etc. I bet she is now wondering... If she contacts me and is 110% sure she wants to be with me then I will give it a go. If she contacts me and is still not sure then I will walk away. I have always had an optimistic view of life and the future, time for that to return and to become whole again.
burning 4 revenge Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Shes not going to contact you Go out to Cellular and have some fun Or Wicker Park You sound young..enjoy it while you got it
Author Optimism Posted August 22, 2009 Author Posted August 22, 2009 Last I checked... no one can predict the future
kizik Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Yeah but some have experience. Good luck to you. I hope she calls and wants you 110%.
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