ilikesports Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Everything seemed to do going great in my life. I have a great job, a great family, great girlfriend. But i am starting to over think everything. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. But i find myself becoming more and more comfortable with her that when i do something stupid, or open myself up too much or something i feel like a total idiot and i dwell on it. I was such a manly man before and now i have told her exactly how i feel. i feel vunerable and i feel asthough she has control over me. She is not rude nor mean but she has become more of a little smart-ass over things whereas before when she did not know how i felt she was trying her best to win me over now she has me it is like she can go on with her life knowing i will be there for her. The messages are not as oftern, i try and take her out as much as i can but i am so busy and tired. It seems she is bored? I feel that if i do things like flowers or something to liven everything up i will be more of a "pussy" why am i feeling like this?
CaliGuy Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Read NO MORE MR NICE GUY (Glover). It'll fix what ails ya.... (You define your self-worth on how you think she feels about you so you are handing your personal power over to her. Bad bad bad if you want to keep this relationship going).
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