sickdog55 Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 ok so everything was going good for the last week, have been in n/c for a week now then last night i get a bloody text from her saying "Where are you? your cousin is asking where you are..... even though my stupid cousin knows we are not together anymore,dont ask why he texted her.... anyway i texted her saying back " Im sorry about him texting you, hes probably had to much to drink, i will tell him where i am, sorry about that" i didnt tell her where i was of course .... Then she texts me back saying " No its ok he just wanted to know where you were, Why cant we be friends just answer that question?" So silly me texts her back saying " I just need time to heal, i have to many feelings to see you just yet, please understand, i dont hate you, just give me some more time, chat later bye..... then she just texts back saying "Ok" Now do you think i could have handled that better or what??? she probably thinks shes got me wrapped around her finger again... Should i just stay n/c if she texts me again and just ignore her, Because the last thing i want is to be friends with her Its funny because last time i texted her over a week ago i said i want a relationship not friends, leave me alone and let me go.... she has a new boyfriend.... but she's still keeping my number, its like shes the one that cant let go.... im 23 shes 17 bye the way i know shes to young... What do i do peoples
nomoregummybears Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 I think the first text was just fine. Very appropriate. The second one was a bit unnecessary. She was just WAITING for you to say something like that to make her feel needed with minimal effort. I think she was just using your cousin as a reason to text you. You owe NOTHING to her anymore, especially not having the right to map your exact location with a simple text. What do i do peoples That's the beauty of NC; nothing! Just move on with your awesome life. =)
caramel c Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 I agree, you've said enough. Do absolutely nothing, just live your life dude.
wontgohomewou Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Yeah, no more contact for 6 months... make it your new goal.
greenparrot Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 phew.. she sounds so inmature. leave it as is, keep nc. Get someone else, and rub it in her face, that will show her 17 face. But then again, probably not the best, just go nc.
Devil Inside Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 You did what you did...oh well. Block her number from your phone so you can't get calls or texts from her. She moved on, time for you to do the same...and you'll need strict NC to make that work.
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