I'm so frustrated I want to scream

[kdark]

You are really setting yourself up for disappointment when Jack is finally yours.

[imani]

I don't blame you, it must be tricky not to obsess over someone you see day in day out that you have a crush on. Though you'll probably look back in a few years and think wtf?

 

 

Oh man, this is so very true! This is exactly how I feel about my old crush. I have met a few quality men that I date now who embody a lot of the same qualities I found in my former crush. It means more because I have actual friendships with these guys. You'll get to this point too someday, Spookie. The hard part is letting go of the crush in your mind.