Illiandra Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Question for you all,,,, is it weird or worthwhile to start dating someone again after not talking to each other for a few months? This person im seeing contacted me after some months of no contact...we broke things off mutually and there was a lack of definition in our last relationship amongst other things....
leap83 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I don't want to sound harsh but the pure fact that you're wondering this and not 100% certain you want to go back to them, makes me think it's not worth while. But.... If it was mutual and there weren't any fights or anything like that that split you 2 apart, why wouldn't you give it a 2nd chance? Unless you're uncertain. I think you should talk with them and try to figure things out before rushing into anything.
Trialbyfire Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 Were you in an exclusive relationship with them before? If it was only a dating scenario, where there was non-exclusivity and the timing just wasn't right, no big deal, life's to short to not give it another go. Who knows what might happen if the timing's right, this time. If you had serious feelings for each other and found yourselves incompatible, you have to ask yourself if anything has changed, in a few months. If nothing's changed, how will this be any different than the first time?
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