Leveller Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Here is some of the background http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=189234. So six months on from a mutual split we are still in contact. She is still seeing this guy (also six months) but we still talk, occassionally go up to her house. I went NC from middle May until July 10. I have never been in a situation before where both of us (more her of late) have kept in contact. I told her this on Monday. She told me she would not be contacting me a few weeks ago because they were 'much more serious now' yet she still does. Some days I am indifferent, other days I see hope and design. Beats me. I would like a fresh chance in the future but I haven't chased or mentioned this since May. Any thoughts are welcome.
NopeNah Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I'd cut contact and begin moving on with my life, as she has.
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Here is some of the background http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=189234. So six months on from a mutual split we are still in contact. She is still seeing this guy (also six months) but we still talk, occassionally go up to her house. I went NC from middle May until July 10. I have never been in a situation before where both of us (more her of late) have kept in contact. I told her this on Monday. She told me she would not be contacting me a few weeks ago because they were 'much more serious now' yet she still does. Some days I am indifferent, other days I see hope and design. Beats me. I would like a fresh chance in the future but I haven't chased or mentioned this since May. Any thoughts are welcome. Yeah, that's ridiculous. This girl has her cake- and you're spoon feeding it to her. To hell with her feelings. She left you. Now you're scrabbling for sloppy seconds? Come on now. Be a man, and cut her off. You're friend zoned, partner. No escape.
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