jgaz3124 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Here is my story about my recent breakup... My ex and I have been on again off again for about 2 1/2 years. About 2 weeks ago we were at a bar sitting on the deck enjoying a nice time together we had a fight. I told him that I would like to move back in with him in November if we felt we were both ready. Well I guess he wasn't ready because he flipped out on me and we got into a major fight. I slept over his house that night and when we woke up in the morning I thought everything was ok, he told me to have a good day and that he would call me later. Well he never did call and when I tried to call him a couple of days after this he would not pick up his phone. So I went to his house to ask him if it was over and he told me he did not want to talk and refused to tell me if it was over or not. I do not like being left hanging so I wrote him a text a couple days after all this had happened to see if he would ever talk to me again and he wrote back yes but refused to tell me when. So yet another couple of days go by and by this time I am feeling real anxiety about the whole. I decided that I have had enough of this bull.... so I wrote him an email to tell him it was over. Now after being together for 2 and 1/2 years I would have like to tell him to his face but he refused to talk to me so what else could I have done. Ok that is my breakup story that I felt that I needed to get off my chest. If anyone has thoughts on it please feel free to tell me them. Thanks for listening.
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I think you did the right thing. The relationship seemed toxic. Has he said anything to you since?
Author jgaz3124 Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 No the only contact we have had is us talking about me going to his house to get my stuff back but there was nothing personal about it. I still wonder what happened but he refuses to talk to me about it so what choice do I have but to move on.
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I know your pain. Not having answers is painful. But, finding the answers you seek may actually hurt more. Get your stuff and ditch this loser. He's not a man, he's a child. A man would tell you what for, and not go about like a worthless bloke with no sense of ownership for his actions.
Author jgaz3124 Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 Thanks for the reply SilicOntoad, in my heart I know you are right, as I would never have done that to him.
vee6winks Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I agree. Its happened to me. If he refusesd to talk to you and tell you how he's feeling and what he wants - I think its a sign that he does not want the same things as you.
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