woopster638 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 ok im goin to cut the story short here.......i've goin out with dis girl for a week,we get to no each other really good and are comfortable to say anything. she has recently broken up with her bf for like 3yrs, at first i jus wanted to have sex but.....she acted differently,like she wanted to no me better so i wen along wit it...then i started likin her alot as d days wen by i started to like her......i dont no if she is jus oblivious to the fact dat i like her or wat becoz i tried to tell her without words like,litely touchin her or pursueing 4 a kiss whenever the vibes are rite and she was totally cool wit it but still turned me offf with d kiss attempts lol. well...we were to go to a movie tuesday but she had to work extra hrs,so i jus drop her bac home wen she was done workin. den i wen over my friend and discuss my situation,he adviced me to jus be blatant and confess my like for her which i thought was d best option btw.....well i tried callin her twice later dat night,but no ansa......so i called again d next mornin,she hangs up without answerin.............so rite now i waited 2 days and no call back,and im not callin her bac again becoz she hanged up for no reason. i think is a sign dat she is turned off.............but whats ur opinions on d matter,btw i dont really fear rejection,i jus dont like action without reason
utterer of lies Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 ok im goin to cut the story short here.......i've goin out with dis girl for a week,we get to no each other really good and are comfortable to say anything. she has recently broken up with her bf for like 3yrs, at first i jus wanted to have sex but.....she acted differently,like she wanted to no me better so i wen along wit it...then i started likin her alot as d days wen by i started to like her......i dont no if she is jus oblivious to the fact dat i like her or wat becoz i tried to tell her without words like,litely touchin her or pursueing 4 a kiss whenever the vibes are rite and she was totally cool wit it but still turned me offf with d kiss attempts lol. well...we were to go to a movie tuesday but she had to work extra hrs,so i jus drop her bac home wen she was done workin. den i wen over my friend and discuss my situation,he adviced me to jus be blatant and confess my like for her which i thought was d best option btw.....well i tried callin her twice later dat night,but no ansa......so i called again d next mornin,she hangs up without answerin.............so rite now i waited 2 days and no call back,and im not callin her bac again becoz she hanged up for no reason. i think is a sign dat she is turned off.............but whats ur opinions on d matter,btw i dont really fear rejection,i jus dont like action without reason Please learn how to express yourself in writing. Or at least use the spellchecker. This is horrible.
Thaddeus Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Writing in English might get you proper responses. Wading through this takes too much effort. Point is, if she's not calling you back and hung up on you, she's obviously not interested and nothing you do or say is going to make any difference whatsoever.
001bh Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 um do you talk like Ali-G? Because you certainly write like he talks.
joseffrost Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Please learn how to express yourself in writing. Or at least use the spellchecker. This is horrible. Writing in English might get you proper responses. Wading through this takes too much effort. um do you talk like Ali-G? Because you certainly write like he talks. Dam! N I thot I cld get in der 1st.
Author woopster638 Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 sorry about the poor english,let me break it down short and fast for your: =i hung out with her everyday of last week =i just wanted sex at the beginning but,as the week went by,i got to no and like her =found out she had just break up with her bf of 3yrs =i show her signs that i liked her eg.slight touchin and leanin for a kiss,she was totally cool wit it but never had kiss me lol =we were suppose to go on a movie this tuesday,but she got caught up with work,so i just drop her off home after her work... =i tried to call her twice later that night,but no answer,i tried again in the morning but she apparently hung up without even answering the phone. =i haven't call bac since then i immediately concluded that she wasn't interested anymore and i'm not the kinda guy to cling on false hope.......but i felt something for her,and i would want to no why she had cut me off suddenly.. any advice would be greatly appreciated thanx
utterer of lies Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 sorry about the poor english,let me break it down short and fast for your: =i hung out with her everyday of last week =i just wanted sex at the beginning but,as the week went by,i got to no and like her =found out she had just break up with her bf of 3yrs =i show her signs that i liked her eg.slight touchin and leanin for a kiss,she was totally cool wit it but never had kiss me lol =we were suppose to go on a movie this tuesday,but she got caught up with work,so i just drop her off home after her work... =i tried to call her twice later that night,but no answer,i tried again in the morning but she apparently hung up without even answering the phone. =i haven't call bac since then i immediately concluded that she wasn't interested anymore and i'm not the kinda guy to cling on false hope.......but i felt something for her,and i would want to no why she had cut me off suddenly.. any advice would be greatly appreciated thanx Doesn't look too good for you, but if you feel you must, try one last time. If only to make everything clear for you.
Author woopster638 Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 thanks for the reply.........but the thing is,why? is not like i have done anything wrong, i can't accept certain actions without a proper reason,i wanted to call again but that mite make me look desperate lol
utterer of lies Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 thanks for the reply.........but the thing is,why? is not like i have done anything wrong, i can't accept certain actions without a proper reason,i wanted to call again but that mite make me look desperate lol People can like or dislike you for no reason at all. She is not obligated to fall in love with you just because you did the right things. And yes, it might look desperate, but obviously you are, otherwise you wouldn't post here what you did.
BCCA Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 thanks for the reply.........but the thing is,why? is not like i have done anything wrong, i can't accept certain actions without a proper reason,i wanted to call again but that mite make me look desperate lol You dont have a choice. She doesnt have to convince you why she isnt interested, or give you a 'proper reason'. Take a hint. Also, she knows you called and didnt call you back. Calling or contacting her again = very desperate.
Author woopster638 Posted August 22, 2009 Author Posted August 22, 2009 ok she jus text bac and we texted for awhile lol............now im kinda confused again lol
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