sickdog55 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I know this like my other story, but just tryin to get more advice, sorry Ok i don't think my 17 year old ex knows what she wants, we were together for over a year, we started falling apart at the end of the relationship,i could sence it and i know she was texting this other guy, so we both agreed to break up, as soon as i said we should break up she agreed straight away and the first thing she said "can we still be friends but", i said yeah probably, anyway she got with her new little schoolboy straight away, "im 23 by the way" hes only like 15, things were going alright for awhile but it just got to hard i said i want a relationship not friends and i went N/c, it feels like she still cant let me go and she really really wants to be friends, I still have this feeling that she thinks that when she breaks up with this guy she will get me back..... we havent talked in over a week since i told her to leave me alone and let me go....i think she took the hint for the time being... i know we cant be friends because i love her to much,but now im trying to heal and move on.... what should i do
Thornton Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 She's a child dating another child. Let her go and find an adult woman your own age.
EricaH329 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I think you are doing the right thing by remaining in NC. I know it's hard. I just went through a breakup myself, and it was the hardest decision I ever had to make to remain NC. But... it is the best way to get over a person. It's especially hard when the other person is dating someone else. But you can't focus on that. You need to take everything you can from the relationship and learn from it. The good, the bad, the in between. And then move on. Try to focus on yourself. I know she wants to stay friends with you, so did my ex, but it's best not to. It'll prolong the healing, if not prevent it from happening altogether. Maybe, after you've both fully moved on and healed from it, to where you don't think about her or your relationship anymore, can you both be friends. But until then, I wouldn't stay in contact. I know it's hard. But it'll be even harder if you stay in contact with her, I promise.
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